even though they have loving,beautiful devoted wives at home
2006-08-02 12:43:40 · 15 answers · asked by missohill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because they are not satisfied with their wives in some way shape or form. They have not considered the consequences if they cheat and get caught.
2006-08-02 13:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
There is no one reason. Some men don't understand what marriage is, they go in knowing they will cheat and even make allowances for days not to be home. This is a psychological problem.
Some go in with no intention of cheating but find the change from single to married too crippling.
Others suffer from peer pressure from old friends.
Alcohol, arguments at home. trouble in the bedroom.
Some men just can't say no.
Then there's the guy who won't cheat no matter what.
Ain't love grand!
2006-08-02 20:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are horny and want a different woman. That is why. It hurts but women do it too. They get horny and want a different man. Simple but painful. Attraction, desire, being horny, being spiteful, feeling insecure, sometimes people cheat because of these reasons. Some people can't take being faithful even though they lie to your face. Sometimes people get led astray by a sexy hellcat of a woman or man. Some people develop fantasies about people and act on them.
Thoughts are lost about the faithful, beautiful woman at home. All they see is the sexy or fat chick with the big breasts and open arms. Or the hot man or nerdy man. Whatever. It's in the mind, in the pants, under the skirt, and your heart sometimes isn't there.
2006-08-02 19:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by shestory1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because they spend more time using their other head if you know what I mean. Unfortunately alot of men don't use the one attached to their neck. Women that are at home are suddenly seen as boring and unexciting.
I think sometimes married men want things that they know they shouldn't have. It is the primal urge that I think all human beings have but I think men tend to possess it and act on it more which puts us housewives more at risk for this sort of s h i t....
2006-08-02 19:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They give into temptation because they maybe don't have a very firm moral foundation to keep them from cheating. It is not natural for a man to be with only one woman, but our societal standards are such, so these men give into their biology over what society has taught them. They need FIRM beliefs to not cheat... beliefs so strong that will counter the biological need.
2006-08-02 19:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat just to cheat. They do it just to do it. When women cheat, its because there is something lacking in the relationship. Men are idiots, but what can we do? We're stuck with them forever. Be a lesbian.
2006-08-02 19:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From our experience husband left his then wife because she was bossy, would be little him, and would only put out when she was in the mood. Yes, I was the affair and yes I am obese but when it comes to pleasing him if he is in the mood and I am not hey I get myself in the mood. I love him that much that I am willing to try new things too.
2006-08-02 19:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men do not cheat, real men have no need to cheat, real men have control over themselves.
boys cheat
guys cheat
but then again so do girls and chicks
i guess you marrier a boy instead of a real man
2006-08-02 20:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men aren't the only guilty party here. "People" cheat. It's really sad. People, in general, can have very thin moral fiber. Bastards. lol
2006-08-02 19:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 20 years of marriage, I never have.
2006-08-02 19:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋