I notice that only women that are overweight, trashy or less than attractive will actively persue a relationship with me. Why is that? And is there something that I'm missing that would explain why I don't notice advances from normal, attractive, stable women?
I'm your typical clean cut, upper middle class, man in uniform. White and 30 years old. I look something like my avatar.
2006-08-02 12:40:51 · 19 answers · asked by Brandon 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
People will always try to go for the best that they think they can get. That is why you want attractive ladies and the fat girls want you.
2006-08-02 13:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The trashy girls just ask everyone out (not just you). The overweight & ugly girls know that they have to work harder to et a guy because they never get noticed any other way. You must be the quiet guy in the back of the room, not talking to anyone, because the "normal" ladies never notice them. You just need to stand straight & ask out the type of women you want yourself! Go to places that they would go (the normal dance club / bars are NOT the place for them, go to the more expensive clubs in your area because the "normal" ood looking lady goes there to be away from guys like you.)
2006-08-02 19:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by Xtal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to put on some jeans and a t-shirt,some running shoes and leave the uniform at home and go somewhere where you won't meet ugly fat woman,go to bar,concert or somewhere where you can meet a few "normal" looking women,you are ok looking guy you are just too "clean" for attractive woman,they like rebels and "bad" boys!
2006-08-03 11:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Inuyasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep on doing what you're doing, you're going to keep on getting what you've got, comprende? DId you ever consider that it imay be you who needs to do some adjusting? And it sounds like you are being a bit harsh, my friend. Only 2% of the female population look like those that we see on TV and in ads so unless you are in a position to relocate to Hollywood andd put your mack-hand down on some high-maintenance bootay, it is my suggestion that you re-evaluate the world around you.
2006-08-02 20:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractive women have too many options and you are not one of them. Less attractive women only pursue you because you don't care, so don't care about any of them and they will all flock to you. But after you don't care what's the point.
2006-08-02 19:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by The Confidence Breaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps "normal, attractive, and stable" women are asking the same question about you wanting to involve yourself with them.
2006-08-02 19:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try changing something about yourself, or go out to different places. You have the power to attract which ever type of girl you like, you just have to adjust. Learn what kind of men they like, then fit the profile.
2006-08-02 19:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go after the normal, attractive, stable women. They don't come to you. That's why they are normal, attractive, and stable.
2006-08-02 19:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some instances opposites attract.
2006-08-02 19:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by LittleLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep fighting them off...with a stick. LOL Sit tight and you'll find someone that both loves you and that you find attractive. Never settle for someone you don't love. Seek them out and you can find someone perfect!
2006-08-02 19:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋