I am married really interested in other girls but I dont think i could handle a 3 way?am i weird?

Question

I am happily married and he is into the idea that i like girls but i dont know if i could handle him with another girl...Selfish i guess but does anyone else feel this way?

Answer 1

It's not being weird or selfish. You have a connection with your husband,and the focus of it is love. You're desire in liking a girl isn't wrong,its just the fact that bringing another woman into your bed could cause a rift in your marriage. It has the possibility of "what if he likes her more then me?", or "maybe we go to do this and I back out". In all reality if you have to question doing a threesome then you shouldn't do it at all until your desire is higher then it is now,and then you and your husband can discuss it.

Answer 2

I know a very happily married couple who swing; the wife is bi and has NO problem with her hubby enjoying "some trim" with her.

To hear her speak, she says that there's NO doubt in her mind that no matter who hubby is with, his heart and love will ALWAYS be with her the one he married.

Both sat down and had a talk about the subject, and he assurred her he'd always love her no matter what; and the understanding was made.

They've been swinging for 6 years now---and are one of the happiest married couples I know.

Answer 3

I feel that way too. I haven't and I would like to. I just dont' want my boyfriend with another girl. He said he would be fine just watching, but I don't even want that. lol

Answer 4

what is with all you people and your hang ups about sex which is something everybody wants and enjoys. IT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD. IT WAS INTENDED TO MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD. SO WHAT IF THERES ANOTHER PERSON THERE HELPING YOU TO FEEL GOOD. GET OVER YOURSELF AND FEEL GOOD. SO WHAT IF YOUR HUBBY FEELS GOOD WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. SO WHAT!!!! HE LOVES YOU!

Answer 5

No & that's totally disgusting.