I love this guy and he loves me( he is bi)but my parents are very cruel to us both and I live in a very old fashioned society. *Please read my other questions and reply because we can use all the support we can get* How do I deal with other people and more importantly my family. When they are cruel to him it hurts me.
2006-08-02 12:27:43 · 18 answers · asked by angelofmusic 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
*karen wonderful
My lord-its the same way with straight men. HIV is more likely to be passed through anal sex because things are more likely to tear. Anyhow everyone is different.
I am premed and you know there are things such as HIV tests...and condoms
2006-08-02 12:38:31 · update #1
cuz they are scared if they talk to a gay person, it will make them gay. or they are so uppity uppity about church they think they are living in sin. i thought we were all people and all gods children.... were susposed to love everyone, regaurdless their color, religion, sex preferance, and education...people think they have the right to judge..thats gods job. get a grip people.... and get a life while ur at it....some are just scared of what they dont know and for this they act ulgy....
2006-08-02 12:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by mazzygirl83 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is simple. Go back in American history about 100 years, spit in a black man’s face while calling him an ‘n’ word, and watch him get angry and walk away. Or he might get really angry and hit you, but then the white cops would come along and drag his ‘uppity’ butt off to the chain gang. Do that today, and you’d be the one behind bars (or about 6 feet lower in elevation).
What changed?
Protected classes. They had little or no active protections under the law. The law was enforced by bigots, and it was only considered a problem by the subjugated minority. It wasn’t until the racial majority was moved to support social reform that anything got better.
GLBT’s are not a protected class under most laws and those that do protect them are often interpreted by a bigoted majority. Unlike the civil rights era, however, persecutions of the GLBT community is sanctioned by religious interests. It is considered a sin by many in the religious community to support equality of sexual identity.
Basically, it is ok to be cruel to you because you are going to hell, and if I support you, I go to hell too. Oh, and I almost forgot, ‘God wants me to persecute you.”
It will be tough to overcome this logic. Good luck to you all.
2006-08-02 20:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not choose the lifestyle for myself, but God also says do not judge others. You will one day face God and face his judgment but no man has a right to judge another especially if he has not walked a mile in his shoes. At least you are concerned of disease and the precautions thereof. I wish you two true happiness and that your families learn to accept the situation. But as a parent I might feel the same, but I would be accepting of your choices because I would love you enough I would not want you to choose a life without me in it. God Bless and Good Luck:-)
2006-08-02 20:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can people say the bi sexual and home sexual are not of GOD????????? Jesus was NEVER married wore a dress had long hair and a beard and hung around with twelve men! Maybe he was the first GAY man on Earth! Also if Adam and Eve were told NOT to eat the forbidden fruit maybe GOD was telling them that sex between a man and a woman was wrong!
2006-08-02 19:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by c0mplicated_s0ul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are only cruel to gay and bisexual men.Thats sad!
Lectiitcus 19:13
If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination. They shall surley be burned with fire,both he and they,they may be no wickedness among you.
See it states only men and not women,thats why they're so cruel.Anyway no man shall hurt a woman!
2006-08-02 19:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a relationship with a bi-sexual man is very dangerous because when you have sex with him you are having sex with all of his former partners. Which means, you will be exposed to all the diseases he is exposed to. As a mother, I can understand your mothers reservations.
2006-08-02 19:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by karen wonderful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be that they don't like him. It is probably his lifestyle. It is a sin to live that way but people are still suposed to love one another anyway.
2006-08-02 19:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by jessi_knox05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because being gay is wrong. Have you ever thought of that ? I guess you dont want the truth , just support.
2006-08-02 20:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
close-minded people are horrible...everyone in society cant be the same--marrying the opposite sex and having children...it wouldnt be interesting
2006-08-02 19:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are absolutely sure that you and this guy are monogamous, and totally committed to each other, then it should not be an issue. I wish you happiness.
2006-08-02 19:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋