I never talked to him about his problems but he says i'm not the one he can talk to because I will throw it in his face...but he has never discussed anything with me to find out....am I wrong to be upset?
2006-08-02 12:15:12 · 8 answers · asked by Cookie48 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Without knowing what these problems are, this will be a generalization answer. A mates shortcomings do have a way of coming out in a heated discussion, whether by accident or an act of getting back at this person. No matter why, they come out, hurt and cause great resentment between you two.. There is some reason he kept or is keeping this to himself, and/or this causes great embarassment to him when it arises. Men hide their greatest fears as a sign of macho weakness. You have a right to be upset but not for him hiding it from you but for him not trusting in you enough to discuss it. If he still doesnt want to talk about it, dont push it. The day will come when he will
2006-08-02 12:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking at things the way he would except them. So, let him know that you are not him and what's past is past. You only want to help in any way you can to keep an open communications between the two of you for things to work out before going to an extreme.
2006-08-02 19:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong. You are his wife but men sometimes can't express their emotions to their wife. I think it's that macho thing. So they talk to their buddys instead. They are not like woman. I know my husband is the same way. Good luck!
2006-08-02 19:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by lifeislove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 1/2 years and never knew why he never talk about his problem and he did tell you what happen if he discuessed wit you you will throw it in his face. wow. that nice... really if you truly want him to tell you about his plm and then I think you should start listening. why did he alwasy listen to your plm.??? and you not. wow it time to fix the plm or it will never solve this plm ever again.
2006-08-02 19:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have threw it in his face before and he learned a lesson not to say anything
2006-08-02 19:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he feel that way? would you throw it in his face? you must have said or done something or someone else has. asking yahoo isnt going to make him feel better Im sure
2006-08-02 19:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your his wife he should be able to talk to you about anything in the world. yes you should be upset, its like he doesnt trust you.
2006-08-02 19:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, most wives do that. no. you are not wrong to be upset. make him talk.
2006-08-02 19:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋