we had a really GREAT relationship we always do( in the beggining but we usually break up )He tells me that he loves me&that he is lost without me but when ever we break up he ignores me He went away even though he knew it would be very hard for me,he got mad at me for not accepting him&his music passion and he told me to go out with friends,soi did,when he would ask about it he'd get mad at me&get jelous at the fact that it should be him going out with me ¬ them!So I broke up with him&he begged me to go see him in san antonio(he is on tour)but like 2wks before that he told me that he felt obligated to call me so i told him that if he was so"obligated"then not to call me so he didn't he wouldn't even nswer my messages,i went to go see him in san antonio&he completelyBLEW ME OFF!2 days ago he told his friend that he fealt guilty for doing that&the reason he doesnt call me is bcuz i am a distraction to him& he'll deal with this later he wont even help me, if i should get oer him..how?
2006-08-02 12:10:09 · 17 answers · asked by Iplayclarinet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how can i get iver him?
2006-08-02 12:16:26 · update #1
how can i get over him?
2006-08-02 12:16:44 · update #2
I'M WITH KIMMER ON THIS ONE!!!
2006-08-02 12:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by M&T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to get over a ex sometimes.I think you breaking up with him was the best thing for you.You might not feel that way,you need someone who knows what and who they want.If he told you to go out with friends then turns around and gets jealous that's not fair.Him blowing you off when you came to see him,that's playing games.I will say this again some men want what they can't have and what they have they don't want.I bet if you found someone who is "worthy" of you he will try to get you back.If he see's you as a distraction and he'll deal with "this"later.Don't let a person like that decide whether he wants to be with you or not,decide for him.Tell him he lost a good thing and find someone who's into you and treats you better,because you deserve better then that.Once he sees you don't want to deal with that drama anymore watch him come crawling like the baby he seems like.
2006-08-02 12:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by redanimalmuppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a selfish, self-centered, immature man. It's all about him and what he wants. He can get upset and apologize later? "Sorry," only works once. If he does it again he really wasn't sorry. He can do what he wants but it upsets him if you do what you want?
When a man starts blaming you for his behavior (the reason he doesnt call me is bcuz i am a distraction to him) that is a giant warning sign flashing "Run away, Run far away!"
You get over him by getting busy. Go out with friends, take a class, read a book, volunteer...
Read He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
2006-08-02 12:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by acornfullfilled 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a control freak. The question you should ask is what do I want to do with my life. Focus more on yourself and GOD first. People come in and out of your life for a reason. We need to understand the meaning of every situation. Remember put GOD first and evertthing will fall into place in his plan and time. Stay save and bless
2006-08-02 12:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll admit, I got tired of hearing about you after about half way. So I didn't read all of it. But I read enough to sympathise with your ex. You seem overly controlling. You treat him bad and then get mad when he does what you say. For example, you told him to stop calling you, of course he isn't going to want to talk to you or answer your messages. If he was on here asking this question I would tell him to move on to someone that supports his hobbies and interests. Get over yourself woman.
2006-08-02 12:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on....you probably like him so much because he's in a band...thats not a good enough reason.. relationships are supposed to be fairly easy and make you happy and a better person....yours honestly sounds like a mess and you cant call it a good relationship at all...move on until you find somebody who truly appreciates you as much as you him or her...im not saying he's a bad guy, i'm sure he's a nice guy, but you two are probably not right for eachother.
2006-08-02 12:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Bay Area Real Estate Realtors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP him, hes using you as an emotional door mat. If you dont stop him now, it'll never stop and you will never be the only one he talks to. Its my personal opinion that if he keeps breaking up then there is probably another girl.
2006-08-02 12:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a loser musician who cant get his priorities straight. i think you should leave him for someone who will take you seriousley and who wont be so obligated to hurt when he wants. i think he's just putting you through all of this so he has something to sing or make music about. dont be another eminem story.
2006-08-02 12:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by ???? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you say or do , a man will never change because you want him to. It has to be his choice to change. If he won't change just a little. dump and forget the prick and find someone who will. A little change is not all that bad
2006-08-02 12:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by Drastar Dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is jerking your chain. Stop giving him the power to hurt you. Find someone you can have things in common with not somebody you think you can change.
Good luck!
Candy Girl
2006-08-02 12:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On again, off again? It won't work. Time to find someone else, unless you're a glutton for punishment and/or co-dependant.
2006-08-02 12:13:48 · answer #11 · answered by a sock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋