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Why is it men go to work, come home, and can just SIT!! I wish.

2006-08-02 12:09:59 · 19 answers · asked by MarlaMaples 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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some men are like this. they do that because they saw their dad's do the same.

2006-08-02 12:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by carobygirl 6 · 1 0

Because we don't put a harness on them. We come home from work as tired as they do. And still we can do a lot of stuff before finally getting a shower and a nice sleep. Including attending the kids. Why they can't do the same? Many reasons:

1. lazy as hell
2. one-way thinking (can't do more than ONE function at a time)
3. They don't care if the house is dirty or not. (Is rare to see the appartment of a single man clean)
4. they'll always chose the easy way out as much as they can (i.e. Asking someone else to do stuff)

My house used to be an awful mess all the time til I got rid of the thrash (my husband).

2006-08-02 19:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0 0

I totally understand that. I married to this wonderful wife who work and do everything around the house. wow. But I told her I want help aroudn the house even if I work 50 hrs a week I do help my wife alot in the house. in this marriage it take 2 people to make the marriage success. Correct? then that how it all stated and I learn to help her and sh ehelp me and we have 2 small children we work very hard even if we so tired but making sure kids feed, bath, dry, PJ, brush teeth, play, read book sleep. same thign in the mornign wake up get dress go to day care where they feed them for breakfast.

My wife and I work as a team..If I believe that women should be doing all the house clean and me working and come home... I wouldn't be married... I married becasue she the most wonderful wife and I do love her to death and not one ever feel tired not want to do anything never.... but it sad that husband thinks that. I have worked very hard at work and home weekend our fun time with family and kids and we do have so much fun. If I didn't want to help or do anything I wouldn't be married or waste my time.

Our Marriage has be great yes we do have up and down and disagreement and stuff etc but we work it out and make this marriage better strong.

I wish I was your husband and would help you more than he does. and Sad that he not a man or father or husband in this family. wow.

wish you luck.

2006-08-02 19:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0 0

Not in my house. My wife would agree we split the work 50/50. Some weeks she does more and some weeks I do more...depends on work schedules. On average, I take care of the kids etc in the morning, school, breakfast etc as I work late. I do the laundry, ironing, yard work, snow, kitty litter, garbage to the curb etc. My wife does the cooking, homework with the kids and lunches. We both work full time....

I grew up in a female dominated family...I learned very quickly how to earn my keep....

2006-08-02 19:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think if the man is the ONLY one working outside the home, then SHE should take care of the household duties. If he works at a job, then her job is the housework! That is fair. and if she is the one working outside the home, then he should do all the household duties. If ya both work outside the home, then the duties should be shared by both.

2006-08-02 19:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, if a woman doesn't work then she should take care of the house, that would be her job. But if both work, then they should both take care of the house together. And if they have kids, even better, give some of the chores to them and it helps out even more!

2006-08-02 19:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0 0

Beacause women are stupid enough to keep having sex with these fools...Stop having sex with your man when he wants to just "sit around" and do nothing. You start "doing nothing" when its his turn to 'ask you for something', and I'll bet he'll get the picture...

Peace

2006-08-02 19:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0 0

If the wife doesnt work, it would be her place to do all of that house chores. which means she is a housewife, i am a housewife, and i do it all.

2006-08-02 19:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0 1

Because we continue to put up with it.

2006-08-02 19:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by butterflies5082 2 · 0 0

Because their lazy idiots!

2006-08-02 19:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0 0

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