how do i deal with my husbands ex accross the street ?

Question

she lives accross the street and comes over from time to time, they're good friends but when shes here like last night my husband literally ran after her when she left, i saw him staring at her boobs and butt, and he left to pick up his bro and he even forgot his wallet, cell phone and keys!! is it me or should i be jealous, he denies it when i tell him that he was staring at her. what can i do? by the way she is also married

so easy to say move!! we will soon.

Answer 1

Wow, what a dangerous situation. How did you manage this. This is a disaster waiting to happen. Sorry. Men always carry a soft spot in their heart for their first whatever. Remember they were married to each other first and now both to someone else, and live across from each other. If there is still feelings of any sort, this is definitely not good. They could see each other,bring up old feelings, have fun without the committment. Talking to your husband is going to put you as the jealous wife and let him know to watch what he does when youre around. Id find a really good excuse to sell the house and move as far away as you can. There is no good reason to dangle temptation in front of a man and expect nothing will happen. Sort of like dangling a seal in front of a great white shark. Same results. Now on the other hand he maybe true and nothing is happening, but your mind will always play games with you, until you snap. Basically this is not a good situation, but you are in a catch 22 situation in what to do,and there really is no clear cut answer. Sorry, good luck

Answer 2

MOVE!!!!!!! Like, TODAY!!!!!!!

Maybe you should move across the street from YOUR old Ex--and let your husband see how it feels. Next time you run into an ex, be sure to put on the extra "so happy to see you" hug, and let your husband know that you still GOT IT too! (but never-ever cheat--just make him jealous :) )
Peace

Answer 3

thats crazy that she lives across the street, very odd to me. Its like they planned it. not sure, well yea you can be jealous, because they were in a relationship together, and she lives across the street, your husband is going to deny it, because he doesnt want you to get all worked over it, i would move if i was you.

Answer 4

So, if she is married, she's still having your husband. No, it's not just you, but you do need to MOVE and get your own life together with Your husband, not her ex, if you want to be happy. He won't ever admit the truth about what's going on with them, but you need to do whatever it takes to make you happy, and try to keep your marriage together.

Answer 5

You should move and don't be so jelous. I know it's hard but remember he's YOUR man now noy her's. If I was you, I would be all ove rhim when you see her. No but relly, just ignore her unless she touches him then that is a differnt story =)

Answer 6

Well men are dogs and you can't believe them ever.. So sad but yet so true.. Confront her and tell her how you feel, Set her straight give her the choice if she wants him and he wants her fine let them be.

Answer 7

sounds like the only solution would be ---to move.
i would not want to be across the street from my ex and new wife. (in your case: his ex wife and her husband)
MOVE!!1

Answer 8

move