My parents got divorced 2 years ago. My dad decided he didn't love my mom anymore, and rather than start a new relationship behind her back he did the respectable thing and told her.
Looking back, that may not have been such a good idea. My mom hasn't been the same since.
She is capable of convincing herself that her own lies are truth. I don't know how to explain it...its like she ignores reality and just believes what she wants to believe.
For example, she's convinced that my dad is a drug addict, which is absurd...and that her former best friend was seeing my dad.
This has caused problems. I was at my dad's house visiting the other night and the cops showed up...my mom had called them and told them my dad was doing drugs there with me in the house. Of course, they got there, and nothing was going on. She has also stalked her former best friend, who she thinks is seeing my dad.
There's so much more to the story, IM me at plzhelpme1389 if you want to help...thanks.
2006-08-02 12:02:07 · 8 answers · asked by ?confused? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i THINK YOU SHOULD TRY TO IGNORE YOUR MOM AS MUCH AS YOU CAN. She is hurt right now and it's going to be a while before she comes to grips with what is going on. You should try and talk to her and teel her how you feel. Maybe you two can try family counseling. Try to get out with her and keep her mind off of things. Encourage her to go out with her girlfriends an dstart dating again. ood luck and stay strong =)
2006-08-02 12:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by lifeislove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, to say but your mom has some issues and she needs help. Obviously there were problems before the divorce. Talk to your mom about getting help before she is arrested for making false reports and stalking. These are serious crimes and are punishable by law. So stress to your mom that she needs to seek some professional help ASAP. Good luck.
2006-08-02 19:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very unfortunate situation. Your mother needs significant psychotherapy to learn to let go of her marriage to your Dad and to let go of this antisocial behaviour that sounds like she is turning into a pathological liar. You can help by confronting and encouraging her to seek help. My husbands ex-wife behaved like this for many years, did not seek help and died within 10 years of colon cancer. Bad behaviour breeds bad health!
2006-08-02 19:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by SunFun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to go to counseling and get on some medication. Possibly bi-polar meds.
2006-08-02 19:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your mom needs professional help unfortunately she wont get it until she wants it and knows she needs help. is there any way you can live with your dad? tell your mom she needs help and you will come home to her when she gets help, you cant live with that kind of mess and get what you need to live healthy life
2006-08-02 19:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is getting Bipolar .... You need to get her help asap
You think its bad now ... but given her Bipolar condition it will get worse ... she might start doing stuff like that to u too ... so get her help asap
2006-08-02 19:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by Hillary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try bring your mom to a physiologist or to church seminar or healing.
2006-08-02 19:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by arveen paria arasuk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you ? and is this your problem or one of your parents
my x is nutty to that's why she is an x
2006-08-02 19:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by teamsenior1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋