hay ... i am 25 old , i have benn the ANGEL in the family all my life .. i was calm , quite , behaving , dont get upset easily ... the only thing was missing was the wings to make me fly !!!!
i mean , i never had a quarel with a friend, i was the one to make up with people ,and help , never hate , never complain ...LATELY ... like 4 years ago i started seeing so much difference , i stopped being the shy girl , i was stronger, i had a few good quarels with friends at uni , and obviously all of a sudden i became a bitter person who complains too ....
now this year i had a baby , a beautifull happpy baby that changed my whole life ...
but withen that i became a different person , how can a person change so much ???? i can get hrt so easily , i learnt that the world is not the innocent place i thought it was and .... you know i became more complaining and i hate it .... i dont talk to my husband like i used to , and i donnu , i changed....
how can that be ?!?!?!?!??!?!!?
2006-08-02 12:02:03 · 5 answers · asked by delayla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think its you finding yourself,Not being the perfect person for everyone.You are being you for the first time.Now that doesnt mean you are going about it right.Pay attention to yourself and make sure you are being the person you want to be.We all have to do "self inventory" if we want to be happy with who we are.I know that having a child makes it real hard to find you at all, the baby becomes who you are because you spend so much time caring for him/her.The 1st year is the hardest year when you have a child.Your whole life changes and peoples role in the past are changed.Be kind to yourself and make sure you get some time to yourself to remember who you are,and contemplate who you want to be.
2006-08-02 12:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by kelliekareen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are two ways of answering your question. And I'm sure you'd prefer the long way, which if you do desire, Message me. But here I'll post the short reasons from my perspective. Humans aren't machines, we learn. The more we learn, the more our perspectives change. For instance. A few years back I was the guy that everyone turned to. Not once was I thanked for the help I always did and so I began seeing most of humanity as scum. Everyone changes due to their mentality levels and experiences in life. You can either create false sanctuaries and life within blindfolded eyes, or you can change. You're in control of your body and what it consists of. If you have the desire enough to change, then do so. You're right, the world isn't an innocent place. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't live life to the fullest and cherish each moment. Become more carefree. Realize that you only have one life and you need to enjoy it. Make the best of it. If you want any advice, feel free to message me via punxshadow on yahoo.
2006-08-02 12:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by punxshadow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be more understanding more open with ur husband.talk about anything that bather you. now you got more resposabity
in ur hands.thing wont get easy,but could face problems with a betterface..to bad moment be strong think positive..there a way out .just let all u emotions out someway somehow. punch u man in balls...lol...just kidding.goodluck..think!..just Think!..
2006-08-02 12:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been through a lot for a 25 year old. i think you need someone to talk out your problems to long term. try therapy - it worked for me.
2006-08-02 12:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did someone do something to you, that got you this way? or someone putting you down, there could be reasons that people change that way.
2006-08-02 12:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋