She never cleans and is online all day. She eats and plays on internet 24hrs. I hate that she wont take care of the house or herself. Now she is chatting with men online. All I do is work all day and come home to nasty house and a wife on computer.
2006-08-02 12:01:43 · 7 answers · asked by soollddiieerr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry, you need to tell her or just not come home at all. Maybe she'll notice your gone and miss you.
2006-08-02 12:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Caffiene Junkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man i was starting to feel bad when u said fat, but I'm not lazy, i wash clean and take care of our son and also cook, im a clean freak i just need to be more active. tell her that u would like her to do what a stay at home wife does, tell ehr that the house need to b e clean when u come home, ur not asking for much ur asking for what's fair when ur at work getting paid to support her the least she can do is have a clean house and clean her self. she obviously feels like u guys have drifter apart, talk to her tell her u love her and that she needs to get herself together, buy her a gym membership or something
2006-08-02 19:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time to cut her off dear i mean i'm ohnest i'm fat and i spent most of the day online on and off ofcourse .I also live with my inlaws. So i cook clean and make sure the lundry is done and help my kids with homework. And still have time to shoot the sh** with friends online. I mean she needs to schedula herself . and ofcourse my husband is very happy in the bedroom part i alays make sure that is also done . But he also knows to make sure i get some attention . Like on the weekends he cooks evryone breakfast and dinner so i dont have to . He also dose his own work clothes laundry . and we all go walking together as a family . and he has his way of getting me off the computer wich i cannot say here . but if she cant do the simple things in life for the both of you and still be online then it's time for the internet connection to get turned off of put in a password where she cant get on .
2006-08-02 19:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by mary_llinas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have any kids, JUST LEAVE! Don't come home after work, find things to do, develop you own life and let her sit at home on the computer getting fat! Oh, I know! Join a gym and get all buff, that WILL p*** her off! GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-02 19:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really talk to her.and let her know how you feel about her "laziness".maybe she doesn't even realize her laziness and maybe so it's become a habit now.try to make time for the two of you to go out sometimes and have dinner or something.
2006-08-02 20:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ask this girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not calling her"lazy" or 'fat". try to start making dinner and dont say" you on computer again"
buy her something nice to wear and make dinner for just 2. and see what she does.
say"hon, would you like to take a walk with me, or "lets go for ice cream".
2006-08-02 19:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take the computer lead work with you thats what my hubby did
2006-08-02 19:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by xxSHORTYxx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋