I have asked this questions b4 but I forgot to rate it. So the best answer will be decided by the communuity. But the person who answered the questions using the source " my experiences & psych training, " can he or she please contact me by IM or email ?
2006-08-02 11:43:00 · 11 answers · asked by rumman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, i havent had any sex but I don't think I am a loser for not having sex. I am just trying to know what you people think of sex.
2006-08-02 12:07:53 · update #1
Here's my answer again:
Yes, sex is very enjoyable. If not "the most pleasurable" thing in our lives, it's one of them :)
I think the part that is overrated is the (some people's) notion that you should do it with as many people as possible. Sex is great and it feels nice to share that kind of intimacy with someone. Plus, it relieves tension ;)
There are people out there who really don't enjoy sex, but I think that's a psychological thing. Once a person can overcome whatever emotional and rational barriers that may stem from past unpleasant experiences or even just religious notions that sex is "dirty," then they can give in to the purely physical pleasure.
That said, though, sex can also be enjoyed on an emotional level.
In regards to "the right person" - for me, that just means someone you click with. Doesn't have to be your soul mate or the person you think you'll spend the rest of your life with, just someone with whom there is a mutual attraction and desire to be together. Though to be honest, I have had a not-so-great sexual experience with someone I was very attracted to.
Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there! And that's okay... When the chemistry is there, however, sex is pure ecstasy.
When you are ready, try it and you'll judge for yourself :)
The most important thing is to be safe!
2006-08-02 17:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica R (dreaming_of_Jason...) 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No,I believe any form of love is the most pleasurable thing one can experience in life.
2006-08-02 18:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a loser for not having sex. You have since to wait til you are married like I am.
2006-08-02 19:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by catmenacestop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its an excellent thing. Actually I'm an addict, so I guess it could be a bad thing.
2006-08-02 18:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God you have no Idea how enjoyable it can be !!! i cannot think of something better that sex.
2006-08-02 18:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dayan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-02 18:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cheesie M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's not necessarily true. Not all people think like you do. Some people may think its not.
2006-08-02 18:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not getting any, are you?? You must be a big loser.
2006-08-02 18:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by KITTY LOVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I haven't found anything better so far!
2006-08-02 18:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just yes, BUT HELL YEAH!
2006-08-02 18:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Nance ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋