my friend is dating a married man. she seems to be blind. besides being married, he is a jerk and a liar. why doesn't she see this about him and leave him. i don't know what to do to help her. i love her to death but this guy is changing her a lot. i'm scared that she won't see how bad he is until it's too late.
2006-08-02 11:35:34 · 28 answers · asked by vicky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
horribly wrong. kill your friend if you must.
2006-08-02 11:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Cole 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hell ya you are wrong! You are both wrong but since you asked and will tell you what I think! what the hell is wrong with you even asking this question? You need help! This is the most basic common sense answer...apparently you are lacking this so you are asking. Honey go to therapy. For your children's sake! My husband had a little dirty secret snake like you. He made me out to be some beast too, yet the other women never even met me yet made assumptions and tried to ruin my reputation based on faulty facts. I have no respect 4 women like you. How dare do you call yourself a woman of substance? You are a woman of NO substance. A great mother? what? Are you mental? Bringing a married lover and exposing him to your kids is what a BAD mother does. A great mother keeps unavailable men away from her kids. It also sounds like you envy his wife. Don't hate cuz she may be a model and you obviously have low self-esteem considering the **it hole u are in. You can tell by her pictures how she is? Do you always judge a book by its cover? You also believe the lies this man tells you about her. Why is he with her then? He loves her or he would leave. I would rather model on the net half nude if I had the body than sleep with married man and blame the wife for my immoral actions. You are the BAD woman, not the wife. You are poor excuse for a woman! Go to church, you need help! I
2016-03-27 15:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating a married man is wrong.Your friend may be dear to you, but learn from her,and make sure when you are married no women like your friend are involved in your life.
Right now your friend has bad judgement. She's hanging around a man who is a liar,and who is changing her for the worst. This can only end in tears.There are billions of people in this world.Try to get her involved with a good man. You know she's worth it.
2006-08-02 12:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tokyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've heard the expression love is blind? Also, she's young & naive. which is why he chose her to be his victim. He knows how to manipulate young girls who in 15-20 years will be in his wifes position and wishing they knew back then what they know now. Experience is a hard teacher. The only thing you can do to help her is to tell her how you feel about the decisions she's making. Tell her your concerns. Tell her you spoke to an older , wiser women who told you this man is a dog an if he cheats on his wife he'll surely cheat on the piece of meat she has become to him. She is just a piece of meat to him. And he'll chew her up and spit her out and not look back as he heads down the road from where he dumps her wagging his tail behind him...it's only a matter of time...
2006-08-02 12:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you can do is to stay out of it. Let your friend make her own mistakes. It is a part of life unfortunately. I know that you do care about your friend but let her learn the hard way. He is already a jerk and a liar towards her so let her learn the hard way. One day, she will come to her senses and realize that what she is doing is wrong and what goes around, comes around. Good luck.
2006-08-02 11:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong to date a married man. Because one day you might become a wife and you would not want your hubby cheating on you. The one thing that married men who cheat have in common is the lying on all accounts. Lying to the wife and lying to the girlfriend and themselves. It's something about forbidden fruit that seems so attractive. Eventually, she will see right through him.
2006-08-02 11:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You better believe it's wrong. It's called adultary. The man and his wife promised in front of witnesses including God to be faithful to each other. Cheating isn't being faithful.
Don't support your friend. You won't be helping her if you do.
I wonder how she would feel if she were married and her husband went behind her back and dated another woman.
2006-08-02 11:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by Puff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yAAAAAAAAAAAAA its wrong obviously the guy has a prob with commitment. for gds sake i mean he cant even stay with the woman he married. what does ure friend think, that he loooves her? sorry to be harsh but seriously its not even a question. help the poor girl if u reallly care about her.btw- i think the wife needs to no her hub is a cheat.
2006-08-02 11:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always wrong,because the married man will give his best
and all that, but he gives his wife grief, deceit, and if he will cheat on the wife, he will cheat on the lover,,anyway tell her you do not approve, but you will be there for her, and be kind,
Tell your friend that she should have more self respect, and their are so many unmarried men,, and that all you can do,
2006-08-02 12:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. If I were you I would tell my friend that I didn't like what she is doing and that I would like to stay friends with her but only when she comes to her senses and realises what a sly cheating git he is. When this happens and it will she should realise what a good friend you are and hopefuly learn from her misstake.
2006-08-02 12:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by hedgehog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your logic, plus it is unfair to the man's wife that she is seeing. Keep in mind this probably wont only end up hurting her, but the man's family too.
2006-08-02 11:39:11 · answer #11 · answered by AT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋