i am in love with a nurse who usually helps me in hospital doing excercises in gym. she is very nice and caring girl. she is 5 years older than me. from last 2-3 weeks i hav struggled alot to talk this thing with her but i don hav this much power that i can tell her my feelings . Plz give u r suggestions and help me.
2006-08-02 11:34:05 · 12 answers · asked by sukh 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
IT IS NATURAL TO FORM LOVING ATTACHMENTS WITH
CARE GIVERS
IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP FANCIFUL OR LONG TERM REALISTIC?
WOULD YOU MARRY THIS GIRL THE NEXT MORNING?
2006-08-02 13:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start by telling you how much you have enjoyed working with her. Keep telling her this. Slip in how much you will miss her . Add that you want to keep in touch as you don't want to lose her friendship. And if that doesn't get the ball rolling, ask for her phone number before you leave and then call her and ask her to dinner or something. If you don't get up some courage before long, you may as well just say so long. And kicking yourself.
2006-08-02 18:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by jenny in ohio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can just be honest and tell her...but be prepared for disappointment...nurses are paid to help you and be nice to you. That doesn't mean they love you. They care about you enough to want to help you get well...not marry you.
But I'm sure she would be flattered either way.
Good Luck
2006-08-02 18:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by az 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a note. Be blatently honest in it.
Tell her you know what they say about patients falling in love with nurses but you want to take her to a museum anyway.
2006-08-02 18:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be unprofessional for her to discuss such things with you while at work. I think you should forget it. You are probably just infatuated with her because she has helped you. Move on. It'll pass.
2006-08-03 02:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well start by asking her if shes envolved already if not tell her that you you have enjoyed all her help and everything that she has done for you and ask her if you could take her out on a date. good luck
2006-08-02 19:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEXT TIME YOU SPEAK WITH HER TALK TO HER ON A PERSONAL LEVEL. ASK HER ABOUT HER LIFE. ASK PERSONAL QUESTIONS,AND IF SHE GETS INVOLED IN DISCUSSING IT TELL HER THAT YOU CARE ABOUT HER AND WOULD LIKE TO SEE HER AFTER YOU LEAVE THE HOSP. TELL HER YOU WANT TO GET TO KNOW HER ,AND YOU CANT LEAVE WITHOUT A CHANCE TO SEE HER.
2006-08-02 18:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try just making friends first. It might work.
2006-08-02 18:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by princess91515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell here how you feel and if she has a heart she will feel the same way to !!!!!!!!!!!!
BUT IF SHE HAS A BOY FRIEND OR GIRL FRIEND YOU CAN FIND SOME ONE ELSE.
2006-08-02 18:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by lala g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get some viagra if u cant get it up then she will be like aight, then stick it in ure bum
2006-08-02 18:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by snooppoopaloop69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋