Ok this is serious so no smart remarks please!! I need help from a older and experinced woman. OK im Between 15-17 and me and my bf are really serious about each other and we wants to have sex and i do to but there is only one problem. I dont know a whole lot about sex!! So im needing help. I would ask someone but would drather ask someone i dont know.Thanks!!
2006-08-02 11:25:01 · 9 answers · asked by country_girl 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I agree, go to planned parenthood & talk to a counselor.
You should have had some sex ed. in middle & high school.
2006-08-02 12:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first reaction is to say "don't do it", but I realize the reality and I remember when I was that age and wanted to have Sex. I wish I had waited.
Protect yourself! I can't say that enough because sex these days can be deadly and besides, I don't think you're ready for kids.Take it slow. There's not much I can tell you about sex on a message board, just do what comes naturally. Sex is about love and if you truly are in love, then just let it flow.
2006-08-02 18:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Razzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, girl. You should wait. There is a chance you could become pregnant, and also get STD's even if you wear a condom. It is best to wait until you are married. You will not regret if you wait. If he truely loves you, he will wait.
I have heard of couples after they had sex, even if they were serious, breaking up. You may ruin the relationship. It may not happen, but then again, it may.
If you want to talk more and so forth, you can either email me or im me at dews_wife2004@yahoo.com
2006-08-02 21:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to really do something then you need to know that you can trust this guy with our a shadow or a doubt. If you do there is all forms of protection that is for both girls and guys. Do not do anything with out it! Sex if very serious. It is not all fun and games. You can get pregnet, or an STD. If you really want to know about sex you should talk to one of your parents. the way that I see it is if you can talk about it you shouldn't be doing it.
2006-08-02 18:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by covergurl_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well if you are really that serious, i would advise getting parental permission to marry, that way it would be legit. otherwise, dont end up a statistic, you are young and you shouldnt have sex unless you are ready to concieve. That aside, if you are going to do it, remember use protection. if u cant buy any, go to any free clinic, like planned parenthood. let your bf take the lead, he'll show you dont worry, just make sure your ready, and not pressured.
2006-08-02 18:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by yahooligan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all please make sure that he is the one for you........then talk it over with each other if you are ready for the resoniblities that go with having sex. make sure you use protection and let it flow you cannot mess up in sex if you really love one another
2006-08-02 18:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Pepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't. the std , vd , hiv , yeast infedctions and probable pregnance that follow will haunt you all your life. If He loves you, He will be the MAN you need and wait till you marry..
2006-08-02 18:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by mr.phattphatt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go along with the flow u will get the hang of it
2006-08-02 18:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a planned parenthood... they have pamphlets and free condoms
2006-08-02 18:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ellen N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋