I can tell that she wants me to be happy for her but i'm dissapointed partly beacuse she is just 15 and also because I am pregnant with twins an i am 20!!!!!! What should I tell her???
2006-08-02 11:12:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
TELL HER "LIKE SISTER, LIKE SISTER. SHE LEARNED FROM THE BEST. TAKE CARE!
2006-08-02 11:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At this point there isn't anything you can do or say that will change the fact that she is pregnant at 15, but you can help her make an informed decision about the baby. A baby deserves a mother and a father who love it and will take care of it. The baby doesn't need to take on the mothers problems, and a baby definitely doesn't fix them. I have 2 boys and believe me that they are the most wonderful blessings that I have had, they are also the most challenging blessings I have had. At the age of 15 I believe that adoption is the best for her and the baby. Placing a child for adoption isn't giving it away because you don't love him/her, it is giving him/her the very best thing you can "a mom and a dad."
2006-08-02 18:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratualtions on having twins! I have 5 yr old twins and they are interesting and a great deal of fun! I would be honest with your sister and tell her how you feel. Try to tell her you will still love her no matter what, but also that you will be there for her. If you do not tell her, you will build up those feelings and they will let loose when you least expect it
2006-08-02 18:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by mlhartke792000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. You have a double bind situation. First, your sister is so young you are very worried about her. Second, she is taking away from your own pregnancy. Please make sure your sister sees a doctor right away and gets a referral to support services to help with developmental issues and issues related to her being so young. Second, congratulations on the twins! Take good care of yourself as well. Tell your sister you love her and will support her just as you have always done. You sound like a good big sister to have.
2006-08-02 18:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be critical. Don't be judgemental, because she's already pregnant. It's too late for you "should have done.." Love her and support her. It will be more difficult for her, because she is a teenager and she still has school. I think it is a good time for you to bond with her since you will both have babies. All babies are blessings and gifts from God. We may not have planned them, but God did. To find out more about God see: www.livingwaters.com
2006-08-02 18:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by radioaahslady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that would be so hard. I understand that you would be upset, I mean I would definately be hurt. But I guess all you can really do is give your feelings to God and then as best you can try to support your sister, at least love her, and the rest will come.
2006-08-02 18:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, but in a NICE way. Say, "I'm happy that you're having kids, but why at 15?"
2006-08-02 18:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellput it this way ... age is just a number besides its your nephew or niece and you must be happy for them. it is a bit early tho because she hasnt finish school or live her life fully like she wants, but not because shes too young.. thats just what people make it look like. if she was rich it prolly would be a big difference but just hard to not do everythiong she wants.
2006-08-02 18:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by adamsgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 15 and found out im pregnant. Im disappointed in myself and I feel bad becasue Im disappointing my family too, but just give her love and support. Let her talk to you. Im sure it'd help.
2006-08-02 18:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u got pregnant first probally it was because she felt she needed alittle more attention so she probally felt left out so she decided to get pregnant too sit down and tell her that wat ever happens youll be there for her and that shes got a big responsibility to take care of when the bay is due later when she has her bay she going to come to her senses that it aint easy shes going to miss being free
2006-08-02 18:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by selene s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you love her, and will support her becoming a responsible person. Tell her she needs to grow up a lot no matter what option she chooses.
2006-08-02 18:15:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋