Miss Independent, by Kelly Clarkson
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzhYtsZQ3yk&mode=related&search=Kelly%20Clarkson
2006-08-02 11:03:02 · 5 answers · asked by Hibernating Ladybird 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am not talking about financial dependance... that is something that none of us would fancy. But I am talking about pretending to be emotionally strong, when you are after all..... a woman, with all kinds of FEELINGS!
2006-08-02 11:03:43 · update #1
Wow, such great answers, I want more!!!
2006-08-02 11:17:07 · update #2
girl it is not about pretending. it's about being happy, confident, and satisfied w/ yourself. what u need to do is stop pretending, and work on yourself; your appearance, your mind, your ability to make new friends, your ability to maintain friendships and relationships with family. the more positive you are about yourself, the better you feel. and if you look good, u feel good, so go to the gym, get makeovers, try on new clothes, try new hairstyles... get comfortable in your own skin. then, once you know you are AWESOME... find someone who is awesome too, and who can appreciate how great you are. the thing about relationships is not to be weak, but to be strong!! if you can't take care of yourself, how can u take care of another? so, make yourself happy with yourself, your life, and only then will you be able to make a Relationship with a partner work. if you depend on a guy to make you happy, then ur going to get hurt most likely. BUT if you look for a guy who can Grow with you, and Teach you things, while you Grow with him and Teach him things, you are putting two whole people together to make something new!!!
having emotions and being sensitive has nothing to do with being weak, btw. it just means you are STRONGER, able to take more crap from someone else!!! but u have to use your mind too, in order to set boundaries for what you WANT in a relationship, vs loving unconditionally and getting nothing back.
i used to be shy, and self conscious, all that. i met this really bad guy, and he was such a trickster. i realized life is too short not know what i want and go for what I want, not just be or do what a man wants. and don't settle for less than what you deserve!! you deserve a wonderful man, just as a wonderful man deserves you. to me an independet woman doesn't mean never to depend on a man, but it means you NEVER SETTLE: to be successful and happy UNTIL you find someone who will share, respect, and bring positive things into your life.
2006-08-02 11:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman can be independent and still be dependent at the same time. There's nothing wrong with a strong independent woman by the side of a man who loves her to help him. Together they make one and live for each other. They complement one another and balance each other. On the other hand, that same woman is totally dependent on her man for love, friendship, fidelity, trust, companionship and a soul mate. She wants to be safe and knowing that she has him gives her a feeling of independence so she can go on as his partner but also knowing that she can depend on him for all the emotional aspects of life, not just to make a prosperous life together. That is a true partnership in love and friendship that none can dissolve because they are soul mates and love each other eternally. How wonderful a life for two together as one.........peace and love..... yes, FEELINGS certainly play into this, don't they......one can read about FEELINGS and EMOTIONS everywhere lately.......
2006-08-02 14:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably determined that THEY have been the needy and insecure ones. What's rather fascinating is that once I referred to as two of my ex-boyfriends out for being concerned about an additional lady, they denied it however in each instances they're now married and nonetheless married to these ladies. Sometimes it is not "simply jealousy." If men could deal with ladies larger, then might be they would not get all this unhealthy habits. Maybe I should not be this type of quality woman.
2016-08-28 13:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman can be independent as she wants to be. I am. I am emotionally strong. Finacially independent. I enjoy my life. i dress ways that make me feel self assured sexy and carefree. I cook because i love to cook and I know that it makes me feel indespensible. You need to make sure that everything that you do makes you feel like the woman you wanna be. My life is awsome, i dont have any man to answer to and my kids and i enjoy our lives to no end. Having independence is a matter of mind control. If you know what you want there are no limits to what you can have no matter who you are what sex you are. It is all about knowing and being happy with what you want.
Live every day to its fullest.
2006-08-04 03:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEING INDEPENDENT IS SOMETHING YOU ARE OR AREN'T SO FROM AN EMOTIONAL STAND POINT IF YOU CONSTANTLY FEEL LONELY OR THE NEED FOR COMPANIONSHIP CHANCES YOU ARE NOT AN INDEPENDENT PERSON OR YOU ARE A PRETENDER HOWEVER JUST BECAUSE YOU SOMETIMES FEEL LIKE COMPANY WOULD NOT MAKE YOU LESS OF A INDEPENDENT PERSON ITS MORE LIKE WHEN YOU NEED !! ANOTHER PERSON OR YOU CANT MAKE DECISIONS ON YOUR OWN
2006-08-02 11:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by hi people 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋