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Question

I really need some topics to talk to my bf on the phone. ive asked this question before and i only got one answer. my bf's dad just got in an accident and i know hes a little down. last night we didnt have much to talk about and we usually talk for a long time. but other times we run out of things to say. i really hate that moment of silence. so what are some good things to talk about on the phone with my bf? i need as many answers as possible!!!!!!!

oh yeah my bf's dad isnt dead, hes resting at home and alright. its just my bf was a little shooken up.

Answer 1

He may really need some quiet time within himself, but to know that you are there for him. I'm sure the periods of silence seem uncomfortable for you, because it is often our nature to try to fill gaps of silence, but him just sitting quietly with you there may mean he wants your support, but has a million thoughts racing through his head he's not yet ready to share. It is easy to care for someone during good and conversation-filled times. Your challenge now is to be there for him as he needs you to be--allowing him time with his emotions and thoughts of his family concerns. Be honored he allows you to stay with him through the heavy silences, instead of him just making an excuse to get off of the phone.

Answer 2

i always have dull moments on the phone! this is what you should do! tell him that you guys are gonna play a game! Tell him that you ask a question and then he answers it, and vise versa! It's a game to get the conversation moving, get a few laughs in, and get to know each toher a little better! you can also play the either/ or game! Example: which would you rather.....winning 100 million dollars or getting a numerous amount of wishes! good luck! this games are quite fun so give it a try

Answer 3

The possibilities are as endless as life itself..you could start discussing an interesting show you saw on tv...like Americas Got Talent or Rockstar Supernova. There is always current events in the world or news...like the middle east. You could ALWAYS go with the standard female question of "what'cha thinking about?" and finally...you can just start talking about that awkward moment of silence and how much you dislike it. I'm sure he does too! talking is easy...just do it.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Say something like, " I didn't really know your dad as well as you did, but I'm sure he had to be a wonderful person to raise someone as great as you. I'm sorry about your loss, but you know if you ever wanna talk, I'm here." Why this works: he's just lost someone he's very close to. Different people handle things differently. He may not be ready to open up about it, but when he is, he'll call you.

Answer 6

Be honest with him. Ask him what you can do for him or his family. Sometimes it's o.k. to just be silent. You can ask him if he wants to hear about something that happened to you that day or even if he wants to hear a lame joke. Let him know that you're there for him, even if it's just to be silent or to hold his hand. It's hard, we chicks don't really like silence and tend to take it personal. Try not to do that! you're boyfriend will bounce back as well as he can, as soon as he's ready. I hope his dad will be o.k.. Good luck to you both.

Answer 7

Read a newspaper for ideas. Talk about the heat wave in the East, hurricane season, Mel Gibson and his idiot remarks, new movies, the Middle East, sports, restaurants you like, school, and so on. There are tons of things to talk about. Educate yourself. Watch the news and read, read, read.

Answer 8

here are really two very different (and important) aspects to the "conversations with women" topic:

1. The HOW
2. The WHAT

THE HOW

Most guys want to know "what to talk about" with women.
It only makes sense that you should talk about things that women are interested in... right?
Well... partially.
It is actually FAR MORE IMPORTANT to talk about whatever topic you're talking about in the RIGHT WAY.
In other words, if you don't understand HOW to carry on a conversation that creates ATTRACTION, then it really won't matter WHAT you talk about... because the woman you're talking to won't FEEL anything towards you.

[Editor: Read our "Things You Should Never Say On A Date" for additional information"]

The HOW of conversation includes (but is not limited to):

-Your body language
-Eye contact
-The Cocky & Funny style of communicating
-Flirting
-Sending mixed messages
-Directing the conversation
-Dealing with common questions and topics

...and many other things.

My point is that if you're running into a lot of "uncomfortable silences", nervousness, and other usual challenges, then you probably need to get the HOW handled before the WHAT.

THE WHAT

With that said, there are several topics that are GREAT to discuss with women.
But instead of just giving them to you, I want you to do yourself a favor and THINK for a minute.
What topics do women PAY to hear about?
Hint: Cosmo magazine, romance novels, soap operas, nighttime dramas, the fashion channel... etc.
If you think about it, the answer to this question is rather obvious.
For whatever reason, WOMEN tend to LOVE:

-Drama
-Conflict
-Romance
-Famous people and their lives

So... it's really quite easy to enjoy a conversation with a woman about these topics.

Here are a few ideas:

1. Play amateur psychologist to the stars.

Talk about how someone famous is doing something really stupid, then psycho-analyze them.
For instance... right now, Michael Jackson is something like two hundred million dollars in debt. Even though he makes about twenty million dollars a year, he somehow manages to blow it all and then some. He has spent an unimaginable amount of time and money on plastic surgery and skin bleaching... and he reportedly just spent around seven hundred grand digitally darkening his skin tone in a recent video.
This situation is all kinds of BEGGING to be picked apart with a fine-toothed critical mind.
It's also PREGNANT with humor opportunities.

2. Find an interesting-looking group of people and guess what's going on.

Look around you, and find a couple sitting at a table that looks like they're on their first date.
Then start making fun of how the guy is acting, how he's dressed, his posture, or whatever. Talk about how the woman is thinking that he's a dork and how he's not getting any, no matter how many compliments he gives her.
Analyzing what's going on with a close group of others is big fun, and women love it.

3. Make fun of someone famous.

Talk about how a super model is too skinny, or how Ozzy has killed all his brain cells and what a shame it is that he's on TV broadcasting it to millions of viewers.
Make fun of Mariah Carey for gaining weight, being put in the loony bin, and putting out a sucky movie.
All you have to do is read a few gossip magazines to get all kinds of great stuff to make fun of.
It's fun, it's funny, and it's a great way to talk like you're all that.

4. Talk about other people's love lives.

Talk about the problems that others are going through when it comes to love and romance, then volunteer completely ridiculous theories about what's going on.
Mention a friend you had who broke up with his girlfriend because she gained weight, then after you've told the story, make up a random theory about how women who gain weight are actually lesbians.
But make sure it's funny, whatever you invent.
...I think you can "feel me".

The point here is that women are NATURALLY fascinated and drawn to certain topics... so USE THEM.
The REAL benefit of talking to women about topics that really interest them is that you can USE ALL THE OTHER IDEAS THAT YOU'RE LEARNING while you're talking!
You can AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION as the conversation goes on... as long as you know what else to do as you talk.

Oh, by the way...
Topics to avoid: Rape, kidnapping, stalking, death, chess, computers, comic books, Star Wars, monster trucks, and NSYNC. NEVER talk about topics that might really freak a woman out, or topics that make you look like the biggest loser alive in the beginning. You'll create BAD VIBES that will make any attraction that you've created INSTANTLY disappear. Others to really avoid include talking negatively about yourself, talking about how desperate you are or how long it's been since you've been on a date, asking if she likes you or if you're her "type"... and any other WUSS-BAG topic that makes you look insecure and needy.

Double Your Dating eBookRemember, the key to success with women is creating a powerful emotional ATTRACTION between you and her.
If you don't know how to do this, then NOTHING you do is going to help you very much.
If you DO know how and why women feel ATTRACTION for men, then almost ANYTHING you do or talk about can amplify it.
And if you'd like to get the basics of how ATTRACTION works, plus a good set of tools to use for meeting and dating women, then go download my eBook "Double Your Dating". You can download it and be reading it in just a few minutes from right now.

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...and read it, learn it, and use it.

Answer 9

its got to be from your heart young just let go with any topic .put a dictionary in your lap and flip through the pages ! maybey a face to face is in order also the phone gets a little dull after a while go get him!!

Answer 10

Maybe when you run out of things to say it's time to get off the phone.