How come bisexuality/homosexuality among women is "OK" yet the opposite is true among men?

Question

Do most women think that guys being gay are OK?

Answer 1

It first has to do with the gender inequality in how men are greater than women. So two women together is like something a man can enjoy seeing and more people are accepting of women dressing and acting like men then men acting and dressing like women. So anything associated with being a "man" is good and anything associated with a "woman" is bad. So two men together is seen as not being a "man" and nasty. People see a "man" as being only with women and acting masculine even though not all gay men act feminine.

It is a double standard but i see nothing wrong with 2 gay men. (I am a lesbian even tho my pic is of a man)

Answer 2

I am not sure that there is a gender bias here. Most guys like the idea of two women, so they think of them as being with the guy. I don't think there is much difference. If you are asking if it is ok to be a gay man pretending to be straight, dating women. The answer is a flat no. It's never OK to start a relationship (or continue one) on a lie. If you are asking if straight women think gay guys are OK, the answer depends on who the guy is. After all, I don't pick my friends by their significant others, do you?

Answer 3

(a) I think being homosexual is "OK" regardless of gender
(b) The reason bi- or homesexuality among women is considered more socially acceptable than among men is because many men fantasize about having to women at once.
(c) Women tend to be much more flexible sexually than men. I mean, most girls my age that I know have had at least one lesbian experience, whether they were just experimenting or trying to be sexy or whatever (personally, I think it's going a bit far just to get a guy's attention, but whatever). However, the only men I know that have had homosexual experiences ARE homosexual. I suppose straight men have to be so defensive of their sexuality (mine is bigger than yours, etc.) that there is no grey area for them.

Answer 4

Personally I don't think that either is OK, but I feel that gay women and their bisexuality is allot easier to accept than gay males , mostly because what they both lead to sexually. With gay women sex is whatever, but with gay men it becomes difficult for the average person to accept two men having sex with each others butt. I feel, this is the main factor which causes gay men to be bashed much more than gay women.

Answer 5

Homosexuality is a delicate thing. Somehow it's masculine to like lesbians, especially for men. Plus women, will always be seen as a sex symbol, and men as nothing more than the seed barrier. How many times will a man have to shave, wax, etc... until he realizes a woman will always have the advantage, she was born to be sexier.

Answer 6

Quite honestly in my opinion i think the opposite is true. Gayness among men is more widely accepted and known than female homosexuality. I think its alright for both but i get the impression that its odder for girls-pop culture may say otherwise though.

Answer 7

"Is this a ordinary mythconception amongst females?" --I've on no account heard of a girl pronouncing that earlier than, but it surely would not shock me if it is ordinary in a few circles. "Where might such craziness come from?" --I will simply blame it on third wave feminism, due to the fact that to be frank, it feels like anything a thorough feminist could say(no longer pronouncing your pal is one). But it is also feasible that she simply is not as shrewd on this subject as different matters. People will also be quite shrewd plenty of the time and no longer nobody factor approximately a designated discipline.

Answer 8

Its probably becuase men pretty much control the world (no offense). Men get turned on by that.

Answer 9

because two chics going at it is yummy

Answer 10

I don't think it is ok, unless I am in between.................yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaahh