2006-08-02 10:46:35 · 13 answers · asked by lilmomma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't play 007...just ask him. If he loves you he'll tell you the truth. If he chooses to lie, then you know he's scum.
2006-08-02 10:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if he has an Internet chick. If she is on the Internet, that's the least of your problems. You need to worry about women he can in person. You can go back by checking his email sent and received and even his email addresses. When you check and find out what you already suspect, then what. If they are just commuting over the net, it's probably harmless. In any case you need to ask him before you go snooping around.
2006-08-02 17:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT talk to him! If he knows you are suspicious he will get much better at covering his tracks.
True electronic sleuthing (electronic forensics) is beyond your skill. You could pick up web sites visited, etc. but that would be of little value. Here's a link to tell you what to do: http://divorcesupport.about.com/cs/adultery/a/aa060801a.htm
To gather knowledge from this point on, you need to purchase some keylogging software (such as Smartsoft's "Keystroke Recorder"). That will record not just his internet browsing, but his e-mails, his messenger "chats"... everything. The software will be invisible to him. He won't know that everything he does on your computer is being recorded.
You can then have hard evidence, even printouts, to confirm your suspicions (or eliminate them). Then, with the evidence literally "in hand", confront him. If he lies, he lies. If he doesn't, he doesn't. But at that point you will truly KNOW the truth. It won't be a question of believing him or not.
p.s. It also logs passwords. So, if he's using an e-mail account, or logging onto a website... anything.... you'll have his passwords to log on with too.
2006-08-02 17:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask him becasuse if you did and he will clear the history.. on computer you will see search favorite and history it looke like clock that go back thing. if not it will tell you history and click on it and it iwll tell you what your he been doing on the internet and history will tell you and you click what ever you found and it will pop up and you might be shocked to see and read and then after that print it twice one for show him and one keep yourself... then after that you can ask him and if he said not ture and you show him the printing that he been chatting with chicks. so if he tear it up said not true and then you know what i mean you ahve back up copy and you can go get divorce and show the lawyer and you will and power over him hahah LOL . hope that helps.
2006-08-02 17:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHHHHHHHH! This really drives me insane!!
You would rather SPY on him than ask the man you are MARRIED to if he is being open and honest? To me then there is a way bigger issue then him talking to someone on line! ASK
ASK again, tell him how much you love him and care about him and that you would rather have an honest answer than spy on him! And Spying is a complete violation of a person privacy! How would you like it?
2006-08-02 18:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by my1215boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
download something like Cyber Patrol, you can try it free for a couple of weeks and it shows you exactly what websites, chat programs, etc have been accessed. You can set it to block whatever areas of the net you want as well.
2006-08-02 17:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can check the history on the computer..on browser go to tools internet options and the history is there,hope this helps,and on ur search engine when u start typing a list comes down to show all the recent places he has searched,unless it has been cleared
2006-08-02 17:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by fancyface4u70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what messenger he is using, If he is using yahoo go under the section contact and then message archive if he didnt delete it and that section message archive shows the conversation that the person had the date and all and time.
2006-08-02 17:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Purchase a spyware program. There are programs that will show you every key he types on the computer. You can get his passwords or just read his key types like a letter.
2006-08-02 17:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him his email address, make a fake account on hotmail, and start emailing him as if you knew nothing about him.
Then seduce him all over again.
Better yet tell him you want to meet him in person.
Oh and better than checking his history?
http://www.blazingtools.com/bpk.html
2006-08-02 17:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lick that history botton or get a spy web program the history botton is in the top of your tool bar
2006-08-02 17:50:57 · answer #11 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋