well... i was just wondering if guys can control wen they nut on you... i was jerking this boy off and he just "purposely" squirted it all over me.. i didnt want to ask him if he could control it or not because i dont know how he would react.. But... i know that men can feel when its coming out.. but can they control it?
2006-08-02 10:42:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
most say they can control it at some level and they all know when it's comming. some can hold it back more than others. from personal experience (only one guy) i'd have to say though that they have little control over how much they come or where it ends up since they're enjoying themselves.
2006-08-02 10:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No men really can not control when they ejaculate. He did not purposely squirt all over you. They can tell when it is about to start so he could have warned you so that you could have pointed it away from you. By the time they get the first feeling of ejaculating the automatic muscle contraction take over and the rest just happens. This is why coitus interuptus is not a good method of birth control. This boy you where masturbating had the additional problem of having you masturbating him. Other hands mean even better feelings and greater sensitivity and it is even harder to control. There are some signs that will warn you if you are really observant. When a boy is being masturbated by a girl it feels so good they really do have a hard time controlling anything. The feelings are just to good. However since you have your hands on his penis and are probably looking at his penis and scrotum you can watch for the following things. When a boy gets close to "squirting" his penis will get harder and the end or glans will get a little redder. His testicles will move up closure to his body and the base of his penis when this happens he is really close to ejaculating and it will happen real soon. This is the point you can either cover the end with your hand so semen does not spray out every where or you can point it away from you. Remember safe sex is when you do not get any fluids on you or in any cuts. You can also put a condom on a boys penis and that will make for a very sanitary ejaculation.
2006-08-03 09:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Geo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have about 5 second of when I know it is comming enough to point else where. Generally its a lot of fun to *** on a women thought.
2006-08-02 11:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by jcrichton33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sure can. A few good ideas for a guy to "pinch" off their nut is right before it comes out is by instead of breathing through his mouth, try breathing through their nose because the increased respiration calms them down. Also you can go with the old fashioned way of just thinking about something different. Now I'm not saying it has to be something gross but thinking about a cold shower or baseball can normally take their mind off of busting that nut. A guy can even practice pinching off the nut when they urinate. Like when they're going use the muscles in the penis to cut off the flow for a few seconds. Hope this sheds a little light on the situation. Happy humping!
2006-08-02 10:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by hitori_masurao 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They can control it for some seconds.... but they reach a point where they have to let all of it out. Its called an orgasim. So just talk to him.....and see what happened in that moment.... next time he can warn you.... because they do know when its coming.
2006-08-02 10:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know right before it happens - but as long as the action continues they cannot hold it inside.....the best thing to do is say at the begining "Tell me when youare ready to ***" and remind him that if he doesn't tell you this will be the last time!
2006-08-02 10:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. They can feel it coming, but at that point there's really no stopping it. He didn't do it on purpose-You need to look out!
2006-08-02 10:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can control it to a certain point then it just cums out
2006-08-02 10:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by heavydhomie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with experience, you will be able to tell when he is getting ready to ***.
2006-08-02 13:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by Bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh at Angie. Once its coming out. Look out below....... Sounds like you had fun though.
2006-08-02 10:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by doldemite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋