i just found out i was pregnant and my boyfriend just went to jail how can i tell my mom? and read my profile to find out what's wrong
2006-08-02 10:38:16 · 22 answers · asked by sweet thang 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just tell her it happened and see what she does. But if she starts to scream just ask her how old was she when she had you!!! Tell her you need help taking care of your daughter because the dad is in jail!
2006-08-02 10:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother in person she'll understand she's your mom..Okay for one thing your a very strong young lady for your age!! (Hugs) I have two children of my own and it is not easy at all but i wont give you a scare..If you already have a daughter you are more then capable of takeing care of another child..What's your boyfriend in jail for? It will be a long long road for you as is still for me and i have a 4 year ond and a 1 year old..i tell you what my mom has made a big inpact on my life and has helped me so much it's much easier when you have someone that supports you..If you would like to talk more sometime my Messanger is aim Redneckronswife1---Yahoo Haileyandmadisonsmommy Good luck.. Congrads and much blessings..
2006-08-02 18:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to sit your mom down and just be real and put it out there and let her know that you are pregnant again and just tell her how it happened. Then you have to go and tell your 2 year old that your are having a child and be there if she needs you. Even if your mom yells or gets mad at you make sure you let her cool off and make sure you work it out because you are going to need her when you go through this pregnancy and with the help of raising your other daughter. Make sure you always have someone there you can lean on and talk to. The most important thing is take care of your responsibility. I hope things work out! If you need some one to talk to or advice I would like to be some help you can email me at moneerocks@yahoo.com
2006-08-02 18:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by moneerocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. u had a kid when u where 15 and ur 17 now and ur pregnant. well u live on ur own and already have a kid so telling ur mother doesn't seem like a big deal to me.just come out and tell her.the fact that ur boyfriend is in jail might promote some negative vibes from her and i guess u want her help. well all i can say is u would never know if u don't try. be brave tell her.
2006-08-02 17:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by ~~SUGAR*LIPS~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got pregnant at 15 years of age and now you're 17 and pregnant again?!? With some dude who's in JAIL!?! There is no easy way to tell your mom, dear. She's going to kill you.
2006-08-02 17:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the best thing to do is tell your mom ASAP because the longer you wait the more upset and hurt she's going to be. As for your b-friend he ain't no help. I know you're stressing and it's hard telling you not to (easier said than done) but for now think of yourself and your baby. Good luck and take care of yourself!!!
2006-08-02 17:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just going to have to tell her, plain and simple. Do you have a job, welfare? No matter what anyone tells you welfare is good for you as long as you don't abuse it. They can help you take classes to get a job thats at least better then nasty fast food places. Whatever happens you can't depend solely on your boyfriend. Not all guys stick around and obviously at the moment he can't help. You need to make sure you can support yourself on your own.
2006-08-02 18:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Chelle's Belle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already have a 2y/o daughter and your pregnant again? then your boyfriend just went to jail? juz tell her like u told her when you were pregnant with your first child. if you don't mind me asking, how old r u? i hope you r old enough to b having kids
2006-08-02 17:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your fault your boyfriends gone to jail hun and your mum shouldnt have a go at you its a worrying time for you and you need her support some babys arnt planed but there still loved i wish you luck and hope all goes well
2006-08-02 17:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by jude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to tell her is too...tell her straight up. You might want to take a friend with you for support. Your mother may get mad or she may not. If she wants to help you, let her. After all, its her grandchild, you wont be able to keep her out of their life...even if you wanted too.
2006-08-02 17:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by surferchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋