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2006-08-02 10:36:45 · 29 answers · asked by torrie w 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Torrie, 13 and horny as it gets. Right? I am 57 and remember being 13 like it was yesterday. I first had sex when I was about your age and believe me it wasn't worth it. To this day I wished that I had waited until I was at least 20. I ended up getting married at 16 -- "the right thing to do by the girl and soon to be born child" to quote my dad. By the time I was 25 we had 11 kids. Yes I couldn't keep it in my pants. Do I love'm all. You bet. Has it been hard to make ends meet. Absolutely. But do I regret loosing out on all the times I could have gone to the beach, the mountains, or just get away from everybody and be myself? yes. You have no idea how restricted my life was. EVERY DAY I have worked and still do. My kids are all grown now. They have kids of their own. How many got married before they were 20? NONE. How many had sex before they got married. NONE. How many now have a college education and respect of their friends and coworkers? ALL OF THEM.
Don't sell yourself short for a 5 minute romp with whomever. It simple is not worth it. Grow up first. Get yourself established. Get yourself an education. Recogonize what you want to do in life rather than have your life dictate what you need to do.
I hope you will look back at this advice in seven or eight years and say "that guy was right on". Torrie I hope you take my advice as a friend not just some old foggie. Hope you do right by yourself.
PS. You probably wonder -- Is he still married? YES to a wonderfully understanding and loving woman. 41 years this month.
2006-08-02 11:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Waldo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and wait until you're married. You're WAAAAY too young to be having sex right now. Just because you want to do it doesn't mean that you are mature enough for it.
Besides, what happens if the protection you use doesn't work? Are you willing to take on the responsibility of raising a child and possibly sacrificing a promising education and future to take care of one?
I understand that your hormones are going ballistic right now; that's normal. Just be sure that you don't act on anything that you will probably regret.
2006-08-02 17:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some friends 2 play w/ or get busy in something else. Believe it or not, u're gonna ruin ure life by fornic8ing (it's a MAJOR sin). If u can, get married (even if it's temporary) & make sure it's legit. Also, this age is like the climax of ure phyical energy, so get involved in sports or something else of competitive nature. U'll regret not doing so, after this...
2006-08-02 17:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, unless you want to be a daddy. My friend's mom got pregnant w/ her when she was 13. It was her first time and he didn't even ***. Can you imagine being a daddy right now...? You can't even drive. This is why kids shouldn't even know what sex is. It's not even good until you're older. I didn't appreciate it unitl I was 21 or so.
2006-08-02 17:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by crystalglass_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be having sex. Sorry, but what you should do is wait until you can actually think through what you are asking a girl to do with you. This is a big deal to women.
2006-08-02 17:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you in a rush to be a grown up? Do have sex yet. Do you want to be called "DADDY"? Do you want a STD? Do you want the risk of catching AIDS? or HERPES? There is no cure for AIDS or HERPES. Just wait. You think your ready and your friends are probably pressuring you saying "Everbody doing it". No everybody isn't . W A I T!!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 17:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young Man, are your friends pressuring you to have sex/ Are they telling you they have? Don't believe them and don't give in to them. Be a leader boy, not a follower. You are too young to be having sex, and I am sure, deep down inside you know this. Know this as well............ it's Ok not to have sex at this time. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't ruin yours and someone elses life too.
2006-08-02 17:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all make sure that this is something that you want to do, because if the girl you have sex with gets pregnant then thats just not going to be good. but please make sure you love her, don't have sex just to be having sex, make sure that you really love her and care about her!!! also make sure your read i mean your 13 and i know thast you think that you are read just make sure ok? im 19 and at 13 i thought i was read too. but good luck!!
2006-08-02 17:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by ~ goth ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbate. You're too young to expose yourself to STDs and risk getting a girl pregnant. Don't worry - you're not going to lose your sex drive for at least 10 years. You have plenty of time.
2006-08-02 17:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Maya M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you try being a kid for once, why is everyone in such a hurry to grow up and have sex?
why don't you wait, why do you have to be like everyone else? you have a mind of your own, use it for something other than following what everyone else says you should do.
enjoy being 13....
2006-08-02 17:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by June 28/10, its a boy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋