How much it is important?? (out of 100, how mush should be given to physical appearance)
2006-08-02 10:01:07 · 37 answers · asked by Sona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Funny you ask this. I was with my ex for 7 years because i though he was soo hot....Sad thing sex sucked...and well so dfid our relationship. He wasnt what i wanted. I ended up marry just an average joe....He is the best thing that everv happened to me. He is great in every way!!
2006-08-02 10:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman's appearance is always important to a healthy relationship because "men cab see better than they can think." Many women let themselves go after marriage and having children. While the husband may still love his wife, it may evolve into something other than that of love from a man to woman, the sexual love. The longer this goes on, the more excuse there will be for a man to find some excitement outside of his home.
In a marriage, a woman must be a mother, a friend, and a woman at various times. If not, he'll be missing something and that feeling will drive him to look for it elsewhere. So, on a scale of 1 to 100, I'd say the woman's beauty ranks 90. (It doesn' t mean she has to be movie-star glamorous, but beautiful and sexy in the eyes of her man.)
2006-08-02 10:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its still important. In a relationship it should be allowed that the people are now comfortable enough not to have to do themselves up all the time, however it is always nice to see your other half make an effort for you. If your just slobbing about the house then its not important but if you are arranging a night together then appearance is worth about 85 out of 100.
2006-08-02 10:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The beauty that is inside is what matters. People can be very beautiful on the outside, but ugly inside. While physical attractiveness might be important when first getting together, if a relationship is to last long term it better be based on something more than beauty. Isn't the definition of beauty different from individual to individual? One man's beauty is another's ugly, and so on.
2006-08-02 10:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, if you feel that the girl is beautiful no matter what, that is what matters. Beauty is more than appearance - it is attitude and spirit - it comes from the soul.
If superficial beauty is that important to you - maybe you need to re-evaluate your relationship. Do you want to call one year a waste of time or an investment in your future?
physical beauty can only be rated by the person looking.
2006-08-02 10:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by lady left the tramp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical appearance is important, but emotional beauty is more valuable. I do not approve of someone being good looking, getting into a relationship and gaining 100 pounds or not taking care of herself/himself anymore. But at the same time just because you look pretty it doesn't mean that your inner personality doesn't have to be attractive.
2006-08-02 10:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty of a girl in long term relationships are very important. You got to take care of yourself. However, who's eyes are you looking through? The only person that matters is the person who loves you. No one else.
2006-08-02 10:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well according to society today. Looks are always important. Even if you have a family because they expect a perfect family. Picture perfect. And if you have been together for a year and still not that serious, then definitely yes. Sounds shallow but that is the way of thinking today.
2006-08-02 10:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person has a heart, a mind and a body; all of which can be attractive to another. To neglect one or two, to pretend they just don't matter... is just a lie. It does matter. We should view each other as a whole person, not just a part. To pretend that the body is irrelevant is as wrong as pretending the same for their mind or their heart. All three make up the "whole person". Strength in one area can compensate for weakness in another, but the idea of balance.... of all parts having value, makes you the best that you can be.
A beautiful blond idiot can be attractive, but the attraction is transitory. A brilliant egoist can be valued for his ideas, but not his opinions.... It takes everything to be whole.
2006-08-02 10:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it shouldn't but it does and thats just admitting to being human. How important it is will depend on the person doing the looking at her. Some people place a great deal of value on it and others don't.
2006-08-02 10:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appearance is the wrong term... being attractive in the eye of the beholder.... and how important that is in comparison to the mind is hard to say. After one year... beauty shouldn't just decline, but it probably isn't as important as it was day one... but without beauty, day one with another may not happen.
2006-08-02 10:04:24 · answer #11 · answered by mobyisaparrothead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋