If we are then why are so many people unfaithful. Should we not just admit that it is not a fulfilling status?
2006-08-02 09:59:06 · 31 answers · asked by fizzycrystal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How do you define unfaithful,if you don,t get fed at home surely it's not wrong to eat from your favourite take away
2006-08-02 18:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Yes I do think we were made that way. It says it right in the bible, if you believe in that. I don't think the causes of unfaithfulness stem from that fact that we weren't designed for one life partner. But rather, I think unfaithfulness comes from other problems in the marriage, but we are too lazy to work things out(within reason: an abusive marriage is nothing too be worked out) so we cheat instead.
2006-08-02 17:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, no I do not...it does happen sometimes and if that's what both parties want, that's great...but people grow and change throughout their lives, and not always in the same direction or at the same rate...it seems almost silly to think that most couples will be together and happy 20, 30, 40 yrs down the road...it seems quite unlikely if you think about it...
A romantic relationship should last as long as it is "good and right" for those involved...whether that's a week, a decade, or the rest of their lives...there should be no issue or stigma if it's not the fairy tale "forever"...
2006-08-02 17:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That’s a very tricky question. I am posed with the same question everyday. I am in a long-term relationship with someone I love with all my heart. But the area below thinks with a mind of her own! I have yet to cheat. However, I think about it everyday. I’m unsure what to do. If I do it. Then I will lose the person I want to be with. But being with the person just isn’t enough for some mental reason. Everyone is different though. Some are, some aren't....
2006-08-02 17:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by lez_fem69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically I feel that we as people date a variety of people till we meet the one that is a fit for us, God didn't create people to be alone, And the reason why people some of them are unfaithful because they lack maturity and try to get everything they see, The grass isn't always greener on the other side.
2006-08-02 17:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people desire it and will try over and over.
i don't think we're designed to be with one partner for life,
only for a few years (like 3-15 years) at a time.
single is an even less fulfilling status. everyone is trying to find someone to love.
2006-08-02 17:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is more nurture than nature. I do believe that people are designed monogamous but are turned polygamous by society. Everybody seems to have a quota of partners they are expected to go thru in their lifetime or seem like a weirdo. I understand from the latest research that an average marital lifetime is expected to be 3yrs 4months.
Each to her/his own I guess.
2006-08-02 17:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we're designed that way, but most people are too self centered to care enough about a relationship to keep it together. My grandparents have been together for almost 80 years and I've never seen a couple more in love; it's incredible.
2006-08-02 17:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a fulfilling status for some people. I intend to stay with my husband for life. I don't understand why people cheat- but it's not for me.
2006-08-02 17:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's possible to be with one person for life, but People are unfaithful because sometimes when that passion is gone, we look for it in other places, it doesnt mean that you dont love the person you are with it just means that they arent giving you something that u desire... but instead of communacting to your mate and telling them what you want and need, people cheat....because either we dont know how to explain it to the person we're with or we just like that feeling of meeting someone new.... but communication is the key to lasting relationships. especially if you both want to make it work.
2006-08-02 17:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by T@J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a mystery to all of us. Do your best to follow your convictions, so you are true to yourself. I'm sure the rest of us will. That's not saying you need to be Mrs. Apple Pie either.
Try to be a good person, a good wife and parent. What else can you do? People go their own ways. Right? Why judge? It's healthy to question expectations, false or not.
2006-08-02 17:05:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋