I am jealous of my best friend because she always gets the guys. I know that she is not better than I am in my rational mind, but I can't keep the green eyed monster at bay. The thing is I know that once these guys get past her huge *** they will discover that with her abusive husband and three kids she really isn't much of a catch after all. I on the otherhand am single with no kids or drama of my own. I just don't have a big ol' *** like she does so many guys never get to know me because they are too stunned by her ***. I don't even like to go out with her because I come home feeling like ****. I don't know how to make this stop because I don't want to lose our friendship or drive my self insane. Please help.
2006-08-02 09:56:54 · 28 answers · asked by Tiredofbrainlessmorons 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My best friend is curvy in all the right places, and I'm what people lovingly call a BBW. I used to be jealous of her until I realized that not everything about her is perfect and that even tho I'm a little fat guys are still attracted to me. Just put the emphasis on the best part of your body....I'm assuming you were writing her huge a s s?...maybe you're best feature is your smile? The more confident and comfortable you are with yourself the more guys will start to see. If you come into a room and you're dripping confidence and sexiness, you'll get the guys..trust me.
2006-08-02 10:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by Aliyah S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I use to feel like this too its not abnormal. But as I learned and so will you one day that is a good thing. You said it yourself they are too stunned by her a**. So with that being said we already established its not her personalilty or looks. Men like things like that . And if all they pay attention 2 is her a** thats all they want is her a** you want a man that wants you for you, your personality, not your assests. Those are jerks. Look over it. You are better than that. Try not to let it get to you you dont need those types of guys anyway. Thats why none have came your way. Your prince charming is out there and you may not know it but you cant go looking forhim God will bring you together. I found my prince when i was in a relationship. We were just friends but the lord put me in different situations where i saw where i was at and where i needed to be and through it all my prince charming was there by my side my ex who i was with at the time in the end showed he didnt care. My prince charming still held me down while knowing i had a boyfriend and to this day he is my joy. I would have never thought he would be the one but the Lord showed us we need each other. Be patient you deserve better something betteris waiting for you and the lord doesnt want you wasting time on those that are onlyto be dead weight to ya. Be patient let your friend be the tip drill cuz ( obviously its her *** not her face) and baby wait for your prince to come sweep u up... IT WILL HAPPEN
2006-08-02 10:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence: that is the single most underrated quality a woman should have, your friend has it because she has gotten the guys. Granted it is confidence because of her big ****, but she has it. Find something that makes you feel confident. Buy a hot new outfit, nothing too racy but something that shows off your curves and is in style. Try a new hairdo or different colors of makeup. Not too much makeup though. Don't worry about your personal attributes. A lot of guys don't care about a big chest anyway.
Be slightly assertive, go ask a guy to play a game of pool or darts or something like that or imaybe send a drink to him across the bar. Guys are taken a little bit back by it, but that lets them know you are slightly interested and are cool because you are confident enough to approach them. It will work, just try it and do it with confidence.
2006-08-02 10:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by Highroller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, jealousy is normal. It's a human emotion that everyone goes through at least once in their lives. But becareful, if you are constantly jealous with her, or everyone else, this usually indicates that you have low self esteem. I mean very low self esteem. Try to look for the good things about yourself. Remember, there are good things and bad things about having what your friend has. Also, do you really think that your friend likes this? Try to remember that you will have someone someday. And as for the men that walk by commenting things about your friend, that's low. You want to be with a guy who is kind to you, and respects you. If I were you, I would stay away from these type of men.
2006-08-02 10:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be jealous. I know, easy to say. Look at the situation though. She attracts them for a minute. Any guy who wants her based on her bra size is not worthy of your time anyway. Look at the wonderful husband that she got with those things. There will be a time when you meet a guy that can look at your face and hold more than a 2 syllable conversation. Odds are good that she will be a little envious of you then. Not that her jealousy should be your goal but really, she isn't in a great situation when those guys hit on her.
2006-08-02 10:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm-mm..I hear ya..I have a friend that I don't go out with because of the same thing. She always gets the men and i set there looking like an ***... and feeling sorry for myself.. I am not a size 2 but i am not a fat *** either. I hate feeling this way but i just do. It seems like i will go out more with my other friends because i know the men usually don't go for them..Am I bad or what??? Good luck, walk with your head high, sounds like you have more going for you than she does..remember the bigger the *** the smaller the brain..just kidding....
2006-08-02 10:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by motorcyclelovinmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you jealous of her? Or just a bit envious? Don't go all out and try to be something that you aren't. Afterall, do you REALLY want a guy to like you because you have a big ***? I have HUGE breasts and guys go nuts when they see them. And you better believe that those are the same guys that I bypass! I know you want a real man, and he will look past your assets and straight thru to your heart.
2006-08-02 10:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by O.K.Q.T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is pulling in all the wrong guys anyway. You don't want any of them.
If you just want to hook up to get off you're better off buying a vibrator.
If you want a boyfriend, work first on making friends and making yourself happy. If you can't stand on your own and enjoy life, chances are you wont be any happier with a guy.
2006-08-02 10:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are being needlessly jealous. Why don't you pursue the guys instead of wait for them to come to you. Theres no need to be jealous of your friend but i would say that the friendship starts to break down when you list her faults to make yourself look and feel better.
2006-08-02 10:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound bitter and not just jealous. Maybe you should limit yourself from hanging out with her. Also, by her having kids doesn't make her not a "catch". You should be glad that these guys aren't hitting on you all because of your body.
2006-08-02 10:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by JanLeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋