omg! my " best friends" dont even notice me anymore the dont even say hi but i dont wanna break up the relationship cause well...i've known them for sooooooooo long what do i do????
2006-08-02 09:51:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know how it feels. But unfortunatley friends can change for the better, or the worst. I know it might seem hard, but you might want to start meeting other friends, and your friends will probably get jelous and relize that you don't need them, and they will come crawling back:) Hope that helps.
2006-08-02 10:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by dollerstorelover 2 · 12⤊ 2⤋
Well, I've been in the same spot you are, my bff was a little stupid with me in the beginning of the school year and I'd say for a few months, then after X-mas vacation we became friends again and we were good. But she kept acting up towards the end of the school year and the first few weeks of the summer but since we're not going to the same high school and we've known each other our whole lives we're still bff and I don't think anything will change. Give it time, it could just be a phase. I'd give it a few weeks; Test their limits, but don't push it. Email me lonely_dreamer3@yahoo.com if you need any help.
2006-08-02 10:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends on how old you are. (I won't ask for your age, that's private) If you are a young teenager, or if you are in high school or at a point in life where things are changing, it is totally normal for your old friends to leave you. It sounds to me like your friends have moved into a different stage in their lives, and you've gone the opposite way (not saying your way is bad). Again, this is normal. The exact same thing happened to me. When I was in junior high school, I had all kinds of friends, but now I am a high school senior, and I am only around one person that I was friends with in junior high. It is because I've changed so much and so have they, and that caused me to meet a whole bunch of other friends. It sounds like that you need to talk to them about how they feel about you, and it also sounds like it is time to find new friends.
2006-08-02 10:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you any ideas why they started ignoring you??? If they have a Myspace, then can you go on and talk to them that way?
Did somebody tell them some story about you, some gossip that's not true?
Real best frends don't do this to each other.
As painful as it may be, if you can't figure this out, you may need to move on.
2006-08-02 09:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finding new "true" friends can be tough. hopefull you have family to fall back on for a while..or maybe just some other people to hang with...with friends like that...who do you call your enemy? And with the phrase bff..sounds like you have some time to make new ones.
2006-08-02 09:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens, people grow apart, especially in the later teen early 20's. i only see one of my friends from high school, other than that, it's my fiance, new friends, and my sister. some girls that i was with every day when i was 16, 17, 18, i havent seen in probably 4 years.
2006-08-02 09:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by TN girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep those same friends but try to make some knew ones as well, or talk to your friends and let them know how you feel. If they still act the same, then stay friends with them but also get some other friends to.
2006-08-02 09:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your growing apart from each other. That happens. Life takes ppl in different direction all the time. As hard as it may be; move on.
2006-08-02 09:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by qtkat624 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stay friends with people who ignore you.. trust me they aren't worth keeping as friends.. you can do soo much better.. Friends are suppose to be there for , people you can depend on.. if you can't even trust that they will talk to you, how can you even call them friends!
2006-08-02 09:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by sarah s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have stepped. So do the same. Find some new friends. Many are out there.
2006-08-02 09:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by joebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my personal expersonion it is better to just break of the so-called friendship. You are only delay the future.
2006-08-02 10:00:13 · answer #11 · answered by tasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋