OK...so i did some snooping and found out that one of my good friends is gay!!!!!....I dont think Iam supposed to know though...Should I ask him about it or let it fly...Wait theres more...I used to go out with him!!! Should I wait for him...Should I ask his partner?...Help me!!!!!
2006-08-02 09:42:56 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok...Well I do still like him!!!...thats why i was snooping....plz help
2006-08-02 09:48:45 · update #1
After going with your snooping butt, you're probably the reason he ditched girls...Get your own life and grow up dear.
2006-08-02 09:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok trust me on this. If he is gay then he is and probably always has been. You should wait until he is ready and feels comfortable to tell you. Its not an easy thing i'm sure to be gay. Its still not acceptable although its more open than it used to be.
A true friend will always be there for you no matter what. He may be the best friend you've ever had. He may be there for you some day when no one else is.
2006-08-02 16:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by deborah_012003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were snooping around, then I don't recomend telling him that you know because you might lose him as a friend... he will tell you when he feels comfortable enough give him time... and don't be offended about him dating you while probably know he was gay, he probably did it because he was confused and wanted to be "normal" I am sure he cared about you though, I mean he still is your friend..
Good luck
2006-08-02 16:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by sarah s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the SECOND snooping question I've answered in 10 minutes. Doesn't anyone respect anyone's privacy anymore??? You were so wrong to do that. It's none of your business. If he wanted it to be, he'd tell you.
2006-08-02 16:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is ready, he will tell you and if he is never ready, then he won't. You should not have been snooping, his sexual preference is his business until he is ready to confide in someone..leave him be.
2006-08-02 16:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by manderin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him over for a video evening with Brokeback Mountain. Then tell him how you hate prejudiced people.
2006-08-02 16:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by globetrotter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should ask him but now that you know your relationship and the way you act around him might change and then he will figure out that you know
2006-08-02 16:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by tustudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're absolutely sure about this, just act as though it's common knowledge. Shouldn't be that big a deal, since you're no longer dating him.
2006-08-02 16:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you snoop on your friend? what is it to you if he's gay or not? Is he not your friend anymore because of his sexual preference?
2006-08-02 16:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted you to know then he would have told you. Keep it to yourself otherwise he might be offended you meddled in his business.
2006-08-02 16:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋