Guys - are girls/women without thier ears pierced unnatractive?

Question

Because i dont have my ears pierced because my mom wont let me, and she doesnt have her ears pierced either. A boy at my school last year said, "You dont have your ears pierced?? And i have my ears pierced and im a boy!?"

I really wish i could get my ears pierced, but if i got clip-ons, everyone would know they were fake. I plan to get them pierced when i am 18, or as soon as she lets me, though.

Are girls with their ears pierced more attractive or does it matter at all?

Please answer :(

Answer 1

babygirl12...
Depends on other people's view...also your thoughts about it..
I don't like girl with any kind pierced on other parts, ears pierced is looking great on girls, ladies....

And really....
It doesn't really matter if you have ears pierced, or tatoos(If you ask)...

A cute, pretty, beautiful, and hot girls/ ladies do not need any things to make them even more better looking...!

Hope this helps you

Answer 2

Who says clip on earrings are fake? There still earrings right?
I design jewelry and I make clip ons, they are popular with the teens.
I have had many teens ask me if I can design them clip ons because they do not want to wear pierced earrings.
But, when they are not wearing earrings it doesn't make them any less attractive.
It's really not what you wear that makes you attractive, it's how you carry yourself and your personality that makes you attractive.
It doesn't hurt to look presentable but you can be the best looking person with a horrible attitude and all anyone will see is ugly.
Be you and don't let a non-pierced pair of ears get you down on how you look, and don't judge yourself by what a boy with earrings says. Jeez! A boy with earrings, that should tell you something.

Answer 3

Your mom doesn't want you to get your ears pierced probably because she's concerned about your health, for good reason. Alot of these piercing shops such as Claires use re-usable piercing guns. Alot of bacteria and viruses can't be killed with standard cleaning procedures, and it can make you very sick. Piercing guns cannot be autoclaved. If I knew this when I had my ears pierced, I would have gone to a professional piercing shop and had it done the right way!

Not only that, but the blunt force trauma of a piercing gun can create ugly scars, called keloids. Most people think only people with darker skin get keloids, but fair skinned people can too. These are very nasty scars and can be the size of an orange! That's why all piercings should be done with a hollow point needle.

Just because you don't have your ears pierced doesn't make you unattractive or ugly. Be comfortable with who you are! Your mom loves you and wants you to stay healthy.

Answer 4

Being a teenager is one of the toughest jobs in the world, You are still a child where all decissions are made for you also you are in a position where you want to make your own decissions.
As a teenager you feel as if you are expected to live up to everybodies expectaions of you. You will move into a stage where you know it is up to you on how or what people think of you and how you like to be thought of.
Jewelery, makeup , dress, smoking, drinking etc all requires conscince decissions.
your mum is still your mum, you have only one mum.
So you delema is really how to get on with your mum and how to control your ownlife. It is easier if you have your mums support in your personal decissions.
Your mum is only concerned for your well being, and maybe like having you as her little girl whom she has brought into this world, and wants to keep you like that. Trouble is little puppy dogs, grow into being big puppy dogs, so she will need to understand that you are growing up.
Talk to you mum, and tell her you love her dearly and you would not do anything to upset her.
explain to her what you would like out of life, and it is difficult explaining to others that you are different because you love your mum so much. You may need to explain to her what ear piercing is, how it is done and you will take full responsibility for your descission.
It is never easy, but give it a go

rember to tell your mum you love her

Answer 5

Actually, it doesn't really matter. I haven't fallen in love with a girl only because she had her ears pierced and I haven't dumped anyone just because she did not have her ears pierced. I think that you are taking this casual remark too far. Nothing to worry about and I think eveyone agrees with me.

Answer 6

I promise you it is a much bigger deal to you than it is to anyone else. I don't think that guy was telling you you were unattractive. And really, I've never heard any guy say, "Well, she's really cute and sweet and funny, but I just can't date a girl without pierced ears!"

Answer 7

don't listen to monkeylipperz. i do have my ears pierced but i never wear earrings.

here's the truth, most guys don't really have any idea what you're wearing. my mother once said she'd never date a guy that smells better than she does.... it's completely personal what people find attractive. dress so you feel attractive, and realize that clip-ons aren't any faker than painting your lips a color they really aren't or shaving the hair off your legs or wearing deodorant.

just be yourself... and then you'll be attractive to people who really like YOU ;)

Answer 8

i have my ears peirced.... 2 on the bottom of each ear and one at the top of each.

when i got my first cartalige peircing this SOOOOOOOO totally hot guy said it was cool. When i got it on my other ear he said it was hot

Answer 9

I can honestly say that I've never given it a moment's thought.

Answer 10

Honey, do as momma says, you'll have plenty of time when you are on your own to do it.