2006-08-02 08:42:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
stop sitting in front of your computer, go out and socialize with ppl more
2006-08-02 08:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by rei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make a friend by being one.
You meet people, usually in places where you are doing something in common (the gym, library, classes, the store).
Break the ice with a question that calls for more than a yes/no answer. Engage them by asking them about themselves.
Show interest in their thoughts, opinions, feelings, etc. Relate to what they share with you.
Don't be self-absorbed and worry about how you come off to them. Everyone has social anxiety, but face your fear of rejection anyway.
Listen genuinely (don't be thinking about what you'll say next). Listening shows respect.
Don't try to make people like you, and talk about yourself all the time. Wait for people to ask you.
Don't expect anyone to make you happy (they won''t want the responsibility). Don't be desparate or needy.
Be honest and genuine, and open up to them at the pace they open up to you.
Make time to spend with them. Appreciate them. Listen to them. This is the best thing you can do for them. This will make them feel important, validated, and likeable. They will want to be around you.
2006-08-02 15:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make a friend, be one
2006-08-02 15:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Clockwork Grape 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm i don't know my friends just seem to come liek say hi one day have a full conversation the next then we are friends
my gf goes up to people and say Hi my name is tiffany who are you so i guess thats how she makes friends
2006-08-02 15:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dum Spiro Spero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see someone fall over or stumble with they're stuff say hi and offer to help but don't go like, " wanna go to Mt. Fuji with me?" so keep on the low side and if you get to know each other well ask to go swimming study together hang out at lunch and stuff like that but you can also do it the casual way......... say hi then talk for a while then work some magic!
2006-08-02 15:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend
2006-08-02 15:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make a friend by being in social settings. when you are around people you dont know just start talking to them and try to get to know them better..you may hit it off
2006-08-02 15:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by juliab3093 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to someone and start a casual conversation with them but dont freak them out or ull just think ur wearid like if ur trying to make freinds with another girl ue a conversaion started like i love ur shoes whered u get them or somthing like tht but a guy talk about sports or somthing like tht
2006-08-02 15:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by climberchk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy! Wear short skirt and low cut top with no bra... you'll make a lot of nice new men firends in no time!
2006-08-02 15:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up and start a convo with them. ahah I watch my friends do it all the time and they always walk away with E-mail address's phone numbers, Its the best way.
2006-08-02 15:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if i like a person and i know that i want to be his or her friend, i ask if i can hang out with them... eventually it comes to the point where you hang out everday... BAM!!! youre friends!
2006-08-02 15:47:25 · answer #11 · answered by Ms. C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋