because we are used to being selfish..and when we find the person we love, we become too UNselfish!! we want to give and do all for that person, *no matter what*, even if that person doesn't appreciate!! even if that person treats you badly! what u have to do is set boundaries... find someone who you can love, and who can love you back, *the way you need*. that way, u will be letting go of anyone who is negative or bad for you, and keep only positive, healthy and happy people around you. trust yourself that you are a good person in any relationship, and therefore you *deserve* someone who will respect you and take care of you. so u have to be a little *selfish*...not rude, mean selfish, but have expectations for yourself AND from your partner. too many people out there are so sad because their bf/gf treats them sad, and you are SO committed but they don't appreciate you. why are you with them then??? they are too selfish, treat you badly. find someone that will love and support you in all ways, mentally, emotionally, physically, and *make sure u do the same for them*. don't give and give and be ok with getting nothing in return.. u will only be sad. remember, u are Great, you are Worthy. now you need to find someone who is Worthy of you. it's not easy, but that's ok... good things in life are never easy!
2006-08-02 08:36:37
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answered by sasmallworld 6
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I am askin the same thing everyday... My thing though is why do we fall in love with someone we know is not right but continue to stay with them...
Just hang in there...Its hard...
2006-08-02 08:32:58
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answered by MsLysa 3
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