i like him so mutck i think its love!!!
2006-08-02 08:14:55 · 17 answers · asked by elleiraa h 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
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2006-08-02 08:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by jyd9999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Slow down!
Take it from a fellow idealistic/romantic type who has been there. It isn't a good idea to set such high expectations right at the start. #1, you'll freak him out. #2, you may come to discover that the fantasy you've created around this person is just that... fantasy.
Sure, if he too wishes to go out with you, then go for it! Yet, remind yourself that you are getting to know someone first, then possibly falling in love along the way. If he feels the same, great, if not then you must accept the circumstances knowing that the two of you were not meant to be a couple and trust that there is someone in the world more suitable for you and move on.
Remember, if you remain realistic and don't rush things, even if you aren't cut out to be a couple, you may still be great friends, so preserve the opportunity to maintain a friendship.
Best wishes.
2006-08-02 08:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say "go out" - do you mean automatically jumping into being his girlfriend? Then no.
If by saying "go out", you mean spending more time with him and getting to know him better, then yes, that's what you should do.
The whole purpose of dating someone is to figure out if you are compatible with that person. If you are attracted to him, and he's attracted to you, then you should both spend some time together and get to know one another. If it's meant to be you'll find out soon enough. If you're not meant to be, maybe it won't be as much of a disappointment once you know all his nasty bad habits, like when he picks his nose with his dirty tube socks, or doesn't always wash his hands after he uses the restroom.
2006-08-02 08:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So uh yeah...why can no one type or spell anymore? Woo, the generation of technology! We are so headed in the right direction!
Anyway...I doubt that it is love and I have a feeling you should probably get to know him better. Maybe hang out with him a few times first, then worry about moving onto the next stage.
2006-08-02 08:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by afichick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We never know anyone really well...we begin to know them, by being with them but even then there are sides to them we never uncover.
If you know him from his being within your environs...i.e. school, work, neighborhood...then why not get to know him, but keep love at the back seat until you do spend time with him. You may discover he isn't worth your love.
If he's someone you've met cyberwise, of course get to know him via emails/chat within an open public environment...not private chat rooms unless of course you are of consenting age.
Relationships develop they don't just appear someday out of wishful thinking...they also have to be worked at.
Key words here ... don't create something for yourself that is one sided, dangerous or unrealistically based.
2006-08-02 08:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't know him very well, maybe you should meet him at a public place, such as a restaruant, Starbucks, school, etc., hang out with him for awhile, and get to know him. After that, you will know whether or not you can trust him. Good luck!
2006-08-02 08:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont know him that well.. THEN DATE HIM, thats the whole idea of a date, to get to know someone. and then, if that goes good, then you can go out with them. just, ask him if he wants to do something sometime, and let him know that your into him.
2006-08-02 08:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never get to him either if you dont give it a shot, if your worried about going alone with him cuz you dont him very well choose to meet at a public place or a friends party ect...
2006-08-02 08:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, this is the whole point of a date.
2006-08-02 08:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him but don't jump straight away into a relationship. A few dates here and there and see what happens. Also please next time read your post before posting it.
2006-08-02 08:20:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jake S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and learn about him, first date in a casual place. lunch, coffee, something like that
2006-08-02 08:18:44 · answer #11 · answered by digital genius 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋