i got turned down for being to nice which i dont understand i can be an asshole sometimes all i was doing was respecting her
2006-08-02 08:13:38 · 14 answers · asked by sexyplya_69 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i know, got the same proble, just become an obnoxious buffoon...that always works!
2006-08-02 08:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respecting her will get you nowhere. Be a total loud mouth asshole and whip your dick out in public and maybe slap her with it. She will be outraged at first but it will leave an impression and she will like you soon after. Or you can just be her friend for ten years or more and watch every asshole take turns banging her...
Girls say nice guys don't finish last but what they really mean is they will get back to you after they've already ****** everyone else and they need a sucker to be kind and supportive when their **** start sagging...
2006-08-02 16:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Stranz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably someone who wanted you to treat her like a whore.I like nice guys,ones that respect me,compliment me,and are just nice,because they will treat me good.So,if thats how you are,don't change a thing and you will find a really respectable girl,girls that like guys like you are usually the best ones and they aren't stuck up.
2006-08-02 15:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's o.k! don't change!
a girl's reason for you being too nice is just her way of saying that she doesn't see you as the rugged guy from a romance novel ready to sweep her off her feet.
i'm not sure how to explain it other than "she's just not that into you."
don't take it too personally, it just means that she appreciates your friendship, but you just aren't her type.
move on and i'm sure you will find a gal that appreciates you completely!
take care.
2006-08-02 15:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be like that..cuase im in a relationship...adn it seems the same way. You cant always say sorry for everything you do adn say i love you every second. And be too nice to her..just be normal..adn ur self...dont be nervous.
2006-08-02 15:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by linigirl92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hun..umm my bro is the same way to girls..they like him and all but lets just say he hasnt had a girlfrend for 2 years bcuz of his as$hole ways..dont change hun...you'll find a girl that will like your nice traits.just dont pretend,and dont be too nice or they'll think theres something rong wit u..ok..gd luck
2006-08-02 17:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls need a guy who are nice but not annoyingly, you know. We constantly don't want people opening doors, or waiting on our every beck and call ( Unless your Paris Hilton). It kind of makes us feel less independant.
2006-08-03 15:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turned down for what? sex, a date? Need more details. Age matters, too. I know most young girls will follow a dude around like a puppy if he treats her like sh!t. But if he's nice, considerate, etc. they find it boring and dis him!!
2006-08-02 15:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be a lot more girls that want a nice guy than the other way around- dont change
2006-08-02 16:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by supersetter04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you dont need her there arent too many guys who respect girls nowadays so you shouldnt change b/c she dumped you there is someone out there just waiting for you and she's a lot better than that girl.
2006-08-02 18:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by t h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she think it's a frunt... like maybe you're not for real. Or maybe she's scared of getting to close. You might not understand now but it happens.
2006-08-02 15:20:22 · answer #11 · answered by *♥*Lucky Charm*♥* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋