she knows everything about me, what, where, when, who & why. we dont keep secrets, because we had (we're on a break) a very honest commited relationship. and i dont bring up her affair, but do discuss her mindset. she was dumped once at 19 by her 1st fiance when she got pregnant. i think that still bothers her bc she will see friends hug me or whenever. then say things like you two are doing something. and if not, then you want to be.
what do you think, ladies? is she trying to be mean to get me to break up? ive never had a woman behave like her. ive not been cheated on, or cursed out accussed of things either. she is the one i knew i was in love with as soon as i saw her. anyone think she is either having guilt trips over her past, or another affair? she's even sd she knows im not cheating, then the very same day will say something like i know you want to do "so & so", if youre not already. then later still will say IM HER ONE~thanks for any thoughts you may have, im just wondering
2006-08-02 08:02:21 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Spock 4 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
it is "womens study" as i am studying why women behave this way, think this way. we are not in a relationship, it isnt about that if we were. some of the best ways to discern to study anyone is thru their relationship skills anyway. how they interact with others. youre entitled to your opinion but it is a study of womens miindset.
2006-08-02 08:26:43 · update #1
In a womans mind since she did something wrong and you know all she probably thinks about is your going to do the same thing to her eventually. It's definitely a guilt trip. She knows she did wrong, feels guilty and probably loves you and is scared of losing you. Brandi
2006-08-02 14:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Brandi B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is NOT a woman's study but a relationship issue!!!
411 to all in relationships: When a person's cheating, they become jealous of you that you will treat them the way they treat you. They will blame you for cheating to stop you from discovering that they are cheating ... kinda make you go on the defense to distract you from the truth ... plus, it gives them a chance to make you feel secure that they love you.
2006-08-02 08:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a difficulty. yet accusing him of cheating ought to reason him to cheat. i assume the question comes right down to whether or no longer you have faith him. He does have a baby with this female, that he maximum probably needs to get to renowned, because he's neglected the 1st 9 or so years of her life. And as a stepmom, i will inform you, it will be hard. no remember what, you would be related to him for the period of the baby you're having mutually for something of your life, and he would be related to his ex for the period of the baby they have already, for something of his life. Do you have faith him?
2016-10-01 09:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is damaged goods. At best, your relationship will become one where you submit to anything she does and have no say in what you do. Cut your loses and leave.
2006-08-02 09:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sukenis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy- she's thinking "This is his payback against me"
My quesiton is- why are you with this woman? Kick her to the curb and get a new one- if you don't you'll simply re-enforce this behavior. (I got away with cheating once, so I can do it again- he'll take me back)
Screw her
2006-08-02 08:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words--RUN AWAY!!!!!! bless her heart, this girls got issues. you sound sweet. find yourself a new baby.
2006-08-02 08:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋