I really don't like this woman I live with.( I cant leave or kick her out because I live in a residential treatment facility) I am new here and she seems to be the know it all rule inforcer that beaks the same rules and is basically a pain in the @ss. Some times I invision myself punching her straight in the head. She talks about a lot of people behind their backs and is nothing but a *****. plz advice.. how can I live 6 months with this person? I have tried being nice and get to know her and it isn't giving me much results.
2006-08-02 07:47:02 · 8 answers · asked by Aubrey P 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
BY the way she isnt my roomate....thank god!
2006-08-02 07:59:05 · update #1
Don't give her anything to work with. If you are breaking rules, then you are breaking rules. It's that simple, and be thankful you are not like her. Six months is not forever. I worked side by side with a person for 2 years. I really wanted to punch him in the face daily.
Avoid her and why do you have to be nice? I am not saying you should treat her badly. Just don't make her look good and don't make her look bad. You can do this. Think of her as another part of your motivation for getting out of there. Besides she is just a person, don't give her all this power over you. Don't let her live rent free in your head.
Think about it. Why is she pissing you off? What is it really, that bothers you about her? Why did you allow her to install that "button" on you that she is pushing........remove it and expand as a person. Good luck to you.
2006-08-02 09:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Scott 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have no fear.
There are many teen-ager movies which teach us how to deal with these hypocrites ... warning, you may become one by being forced into the situation. Get a DVD and rent "Mean Girls" staring Linsey Lohan ... this has great techniques emphasising Sun Sziuz (Sp???) Art of War ... after watching this movie 5-6 times you too should be able to perform some of the simple survival techniques.
2006-08-02 14:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get along w/ her then ignore her. In your situation consider everything you go through as a way for you to get stronger. Concentrate on making yourself well and let the others do the same.
2006-08-02 14:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by ibeentherex2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, being where you are, talk to your councilor. They may have the best advice there. I wouldn't take any from here. Wait, that mean you shouldn't listen to me.
Sorry, I shouldn't be joking, but seriously, your problem sucks, ask if you can be moved, or get advice from your counselor.
2006-08-02 14:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have anger management problems. Maybe you can ask for a room assignment change.
2006-08-02 14:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put rocks under her bed sheets. Gum on her pillow. And laugh at her.
2006-08-02 14:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by jiexidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her! there's a lot of stuff u need to worry about.. tick her off your list!
2006-08-02 15:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by cosmicgiRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first kiss her,then kill her ...
2006-08-02 14:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋