2006-08-02 07:46:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him its over. You will have to move if he's possesive because he will more than likely stalk you.
Don't stay with him,it will only get worse! I know i did it, ended up marrying mine and he turned violent!
its harder to divorce so get out now!
2006-08-02 08:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Was it his place first? Then just leave. Was it your place first? Give him an eviction notice. Was it a place you got together? Then you need to have a talk with him. Tell him that you are sorry but you just can't see spending the rest of your life like this. Tell him that you care about him but can't live with the controlling and possessiveness so you think it is time to move on. Ask him what he would like to do to split up the house and the possession. You two will have to come to a compromise. IF you are scared that he will become abusive to you then get a restraining order and have the police come and remove him.
2006-08-02 07:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long has he been living there in some place you cant legally throw him out but if only awhile tell him he is no longer someone you can see spending your life with and you don't think living together is a good idea any longer and tell him he has to go on Friday and has till Sunday that way you can watch him and make sure he does not take or break your belongings. be strong because if he is this bad now it will only get worse after marriage
2006-08-02 07:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by hi people 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this something new? It could be just a one time thing, talk it out, seek counseling. Sometimes we get jitters and jump to conclusions. Otherwise, discuss it, and maybe it's a relationship that's meant to last. If he is controlling and possessive, you may want to have a friend or family member close by in case you feel threatened. Either way, best of luck. Remember, you are in control of your future. You deserve better.
2006-08-02 07:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your financial situation. Who's home it is legally. Etc. If its you're financially secure and its your home than just tell him to get out. If you fear for your physical well being than make sure a friend is there when you tell them. Tell the friend that no matter what he says or how he begs and how many times he says he loves me do not let me let him stay. If you AREN'T financially secure and its his place than you're kind of screwed, you shouldn't have ever moved in depending on him taking care of you- now you'll have to find a friend/sibling/parent who will take you in temporarily save up and move out on your own. But its as simple as telling him "GET OUT" or... leaving.
2006-08-02 07:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to end the relashionship and want him to leave the house immediately. If possible, pack up his clothes and have them ready for him when you talk. If he attempts to get mad or threaten you, tell him you will call the police, get him fired from his job and make sure his life is a living hell for a few months. Tell him you have friends in low places, and won't hesitate to call them if you need to to get him to leave you alone.
2006-08-02 07:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by cozy_yellowbeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have a very serious one on your hands honey! What you could do though is call the police after you have this talk with him and he decides to act irrational. Sounds like he may get physical...................girl if you have other male siblings or relatives bring in the muscle for him!
2006-08-02 07:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by souljagirpart2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him now!!! don't wait till you're married. i was engaged once and broke it off. it was the best thing for both of us. it'll be easier sooner than later. when is the lease up? if you want him out, have some friends move in with you both for a while. that will show him he can be replaced.
2006-08-02 07:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's at least 50 ways to leave your lover. Just tell him to GET OUT! If he doesn't leave take legal action. Restraining orders work wonders!
2006-08-02 07:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is his name on the lease? If not, and he doesn't go willingly, you can call the police and have him removed forcibly. He is trespassing. And I'd say stop referring to him as your fiance.
2006-08-02 07:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by ninusharra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋