Why is that most men are perverts and see girls as sexual objects?

Question

Is it just natural animal instincts?

Answer 1

Both guys and girls have " Animal instincts " with some degrees of variations. But, our society and culture provoking animal instincts of guys in various forms in the name of Fashion, advertisements,music videos,movies etc... And girls are being projected as a " hard -to get - product " to satisfy the needs of men . In this process, men always forget to see the Humanistic elements in girls.

Answer 2

Most men are not perverts. You're in the wrong crowd. And not all men view women as sexual objects; our society, and the main religions, teach men that women are sexual objects. And women are gullible enough to fall for it. If a man wants my attentions, he needs to be naked and kneeling at my feet.

Answer 3

You need to stop being sexist. You deserve all the sexism thrown at you with that attitude. Humans are not animals. Our superior brains do not put us on the level an animal, unless we choose to let it.
Men are the same as women. You all have just as much sexual perversion and see men as sex objects. The difference is just that you keep it inside, and in guys, it shows intentionally or not.

Answer 4

There is this joke : a little guy shows a girl his cycle and says
"I have a cycle you don t teehee"she gets pissed off goes homme pesters her parents and gets one too. I have one too she says tee hee .
Next day he shows her his watch tee hee . She again goes home and gets a watch . Frustrated the guy shows his member
I have one do you . To which she lifts her dress and says "With this I can get as many of those as I want "

Well thats the way it is !! And that's why we exist .Its nature.

By the way all guys are not perverts and all girls don t make heads turn .

Answer 5

Most men don't mature until they're in their late 20s.

Many women reward this male behavior by falling for the "bad boys". So, men conclude this is what women want.

Many men are not that way. You just don't seem to be noticing the good ones, or they are already taken.

Answer 6

It should simply be understood that the answer for this question lies upon one's perception, which is seeded and then grown by the elements surrounding him.

Few reasons could be established as answers to your question for which many other active participants too seek info/perspectives.

a) Certain Religious and mythological beleifs.

i) Certain tribal groups beleive the female species to be solely sexual elements, thus expecting them to receive whatever is offered. This is indeed a major topic discussed and researched mainly the eastern part of the world.

ii) Certain sexual acts accepted to be religious practises.
This sort of a motivation by religion would indeed create such a thought in many.

This fact (a) is mainly realized in the eastern parts of the worlds, in most cases undeveloped/developing third-world countries where the level of educated individuals are very low; and high prominance is given to mythological and religious beliefs.


b) Present Elements surrounding us!

i) We do understand that entertainment industry as a whole is mainly focussed on making profits. Therefore, realizing the major factors of profitability, which in many cases would be sex on mainstream media, publicized in greater extent. This is a contraversial fact, though relevant to the question as a part of the answer.(Therefore, i'll be leaving this as a debatable topic)

ii) Easy access to Prostitution, and encouragement to get into the business. This would really increase the level of interest towards these sectors and, thus would create deviated(religion or beliefs) concepts in people living in a such cultural environment.

These are in fact, rights of a human being. They are given the chance to understand to choose betweent their requirements and non-requirements. But prevention of easy access to these facts for persons under 18 or whatever the age law or religion accepts to be major, would be a very stronghold to overcome this sort of a perception.

Basically, you should determine, what a lady is to you? Is she just another sexual object or simply a fellow human being who indeed has highly potential intellectual skills integrated in to her.

As adults, we have the chance to understand that ladies or rather the feminine gender as whole is a fellow being with similar thoughts and needs to survive in this world as a musculine being does. But, kids (boys) need some motivation. They should be educated of this fact. They should be thought to respect ladies/females as equavelent to them. In history, ladies were given due prominance at all stages of life.

But we should understand that animal instincts is beyond our control if we cannot control its habitat.

Understanding that, girls are not simply sexual objects, but they are people who we could interact in a high capacity of understanding and respect, inclusive of the facts intelligence and human resources as a whole.

Wish it was helpful!
Thank You!

Answer 7

Well...

The answer is lengthy and I will be happy to write it out if you email me. Basically, It has to do with two things (or a combination of two things). The difference in the way men and women are 'wired', and sin. Understanding those two things will answer your question better than 1000 yahoo answers. Email me for the full explanation.

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Answer 8

That is just the way God made them. Lets face it if guys did not think about sex all the time the human race would have ended along time ago. For most woman even thoe they may enjoy sex could sometimes go with out.

Answer 9

Not all men view women that way, and in my opinion, it's society that's doing it, even some of the women are putting themselves in that position, but on the flipside, I know that some women view guys the same way, you just don't notice it cause of the stereotypes on males and females.

Answer 10

From the way we see it in everyday life.
Music - lyrics of the song, and the videos that go with it.
Movies - many movies such as Wedding Crashers do a good job.