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I'm DEFINITELY going to get a slagging-off for this one, but it's a genuine question, and I'd like to hear people's opinions one way or the other.

My reasoning is that most mainstream religions link sex to guilt and dirtyness (if it isn't done for the purposes of reproduction within the context of marriage, that is). So it seems natural that as a result of this, many religious people may have certain hang-ups with regard to sex, and perhaps be uncomfortable with it. And people who are uncomfortable and inhibited are less likely to be good in bed.

Unfortunately I lack the personal experience to be able to prove or disprove this theory:-( So what have you found from YOUR experience?

2006-08-02 07:23:04 · 24 answers · asked by Alex 42 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Well, as the country song goes, good little girls make some mighty wild women. But I doubt you'll find their true nature outside the bonds of marriage.

2006-08-02 07:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by MornGloryHM 4 · 3 1

First, you have to realize what types of people are religious folk. Many have done exactly what they wanted to do which was not under the auspices of Jesus and God are watching. Something very traumatic happened in their lives and turned them around, but for the grace of God I would have been dead . . . or something like that. Those typesof Chrisitians can be low down dirty freaks. They will only be that freak for their husband. Just because someone is a Christian does not mean they are a wimp. Quite the contrary, they have a past and I find that they go extreme one way and come back to the extreme in the opposite direction.

Then there is the type that was raised in the Church or some religious compund, they have few experiences and when they break free are the wildest people you ever want to meet. But if they are the ones who never broke free, they are waiting for their wedding and I feel for the woman they marry, both of them will be living out fantasies of wanton pleasures they have kept under lock and key.

So, sorry, your theory seems to only apply to the unreligious girl who's telling you no, I can't with no real reasoning. One minute she's next to ecstacy the next she clams up. She wants to let go but wants you to respect her. She may very well be the lousiest lay you've ever had, because she wants to but doesn't want to be judged. They are the worst. Men usually wait them out, until they "finally" feel comfortable then f _ _ _ their brains out, then leave them. Which is another reason this girl is like that. She was told not to do it so that the boy will respect you and she tried, but at the same time she wanted to do the right thing too.

2006-08-02 07:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0 1

They are probably just the same as the great majority of people. Looking for someone that they can really love, and sex is an expression of that love. But often it's not that important. It's the "getting on" thing rather than the "getting it on" thing! It's up to the individual couple to decide what is right for them.

2006-08-02 07:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by F E 1 · 0 0

This is crazy Why the hell would a persons religious beliefs effect how they do in bed? Ok, so they certain difference about dirtyness, but sex is normal, natural.

2006-08-02 07:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

OK- I am a Christian, and I have been told that I am awesome in bed. The way I look at it, sex is not shameful, I am willing to do anything (well almost) as long as it is in a committed relationship. Neither of us are out sleeping with others or anything like that, it is just the two of us and we really enjoy each other. BTW my man is a Christian too, we have a great time, and trust me...we aren't boring...lol

2006-08-02 07:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by lissad 4 · 1 0

I am not religeous myself and have a general mistrust of organized religeon from the standpoint that it seems to devide people more than unite them, and throughout history has proven to cause an awful lot of bloodshed and misery. Therefore I havent ever been attracted to anyone "religeous" and have no personal experience either, but I would tend to assume your statement correct, they probably suck at it.

2006-08-02 07:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by islalinda 3 · 0 0

Hi there i guss you are a lad my mum and dad are christians and i have been brought up in a christian home but you know just because you are religious doesnt mean you have hang ups with sex just because you are religious they are just human i dont feel dirty when i have had sex but you know my mate says you shold test the products before you buy u know wat i mean if you want to talk about any thing else the my email address is mostyn1984@yahoo.co.uk i am differen but maybe everyone is

2006-08-02 07:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by abby1984 1 · 0 0

Of course we are. Real Christianity encourages enjoying sex for the pleasure of it within the bounds of marriage. And just think, how good would it be for the other person to do their best to pleasure you while you do the same for them? The best mindblowing sex in the world! And that's what real Christianity encourages.

2006-08-02 07:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by williamselli 1 · 0 0

Yes. Religious people are good in bed. Those who have sexual hangups and feel guilt have a different problem not related to being religious.

2006-08-02 07:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0 0

As muslim can say u that religion can protect us from negative side of sex, cuz its not allowing everyting, AID or ther deasses wil not pread or mostly will not catch u. so its saving u.

2006-08-02 07:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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