wear "flashy bras" then i can move out so i told her (i was talking to my mom) that i couldnt wear tank tops and id have to get those stupid bathing suit tops because i was soo embarrassed and i told her that i wouldnt wear deoderant-do u know what she told me! "Well honey, if thats how you feel , i guess i cant stop you"
SO Last night i shaved !! -only my armpits-my mom found out and now im grounded for a week but it was TOTALY worth it! But How can i shave agian withought getting grounded every month or so??? And how talk my parents into telling me how babies are born?or letting me wear anything besides normal always when i get pms( my mom told me it was just somehting that happens every month) i dont know what it is for or anything- id like to be able to use even different absorbancies...anything... well id just like some freedom-im not allowed to go anywhere outside of our yardeven cross the street -withought an adult!! HELP At the mall all the other teens look at me strangely
2006-08-02 07:19:03 · 15 answers · asked by cuty_magpie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i need help-not go talk to ur parents -like real help -
2006-08-02 07:21:51 · update #1
sorry im 12
2006-08-02 07:45:15 · update #2
i dont have any older sibs-im an olnly child but im adopted coz my mom cant have children
2006-08-02 07:46:36 · update #3
You don't say how old you are. By the ages of 12 thru 14 girls generally start shaving their underarms and legs. In America anyway. Are your parents against your shaving because of your nationality or religious beliefs? If so you will have to respect them while you are young and under their roof. However, you need to start having conversations with your mother about the issue and get a better understanding of why they are saying NO and let them know how their decision affects you. Are you teased when you go to school? You don't sound like you have any friends. Learn to be proud of who you are and who your parents are. Different isn't always BAD.
2006-08-02 07:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Pamela M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your parents strict due to religion or something?
Not shaving........
How old are you?
You could always go have your pitts sugared. This way it'll stop the growth of new hair and you won't have to worry about getting in trouble cause you won't have anymore hair.
As for when you bleed monthly.....
This is your monthly cycle. Once you get this you can become pregnant if you have sex.
To have a baby you need to have sex. The male sperm needs to fertilize your eggs. If this happens. You become pregnant.
If your parents are as strict as you say they are then I'm sure your mother will not let you use tampons. These are inserted into the vagina.
You need to sit down with your parents and let them know by not letting you do normal things that other teens get to do will eventually end up making you resent and rebel against them.
2006-08-02 07:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that really sucks but since your only 12 theres not much you can do for a while.....first of all you need to try talking to your parents about the situation...if you got armpit hair it needs shaved even if you are 12.....if you and your parents cant compromise on anything maybe when you go back to school you could talk to you school counselor about this....he or she can talk to your parents and explain to all of you what is appropriate at your age
2006-08-02 07:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by gaigesmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so ridiculous.You aren't allowed to shave,there is something wrong with your mom.She has some major problems.How old are you?Have you tried talking to another family member about this.If it gets any worse try talking with child services.Sneak your moms razor(unless she does'nt shave either),how did she find out the last time?
2006-08-02 07:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to put how old you are. anyways my mom didn't let me shave until 7th grade and actually she didn't let me shave she made me use nair but then i started actually shaving at the end of seventh grade. So ask your mom about Nair hair removal
2006-08-02 07:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by countrygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to a trusted adult, preferably female (teacher, councelor, neighbor, aunt, etc.) to help talk to your parents. They're not raising you right.
2006-08-02 07:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sarcasm Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, that sucks, how old are u? anyway cause that is like ur parents still treat u like a baby,
email me at myhailary123@yahoo.com cause i don't like explaining too much, k!
2006-08-08 07:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by Very hard to guessed ^-^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that sucks. Email me dancingqueenkv@yahoo.com
2006-08-02 07:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by Stunnas on got my stunnas on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read books and talk to another adult that you trust.
2006-08-02 07:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to your parents what you want to do. I am sure that they will understand.
2006-08-08 07:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋