most women fake orgasms which is illogical considering the fact if they are not enjoying sex it makes no sense to pretend.i think it is easier to tell men what they can do in order to help them (women)achieve real orgasms.
2006-08-02 07:09:46 · 42 answers · asked by niko 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
because they want you to think you're doing good n build you're confidence but if they start giving you pointers that's gonna make u feel like you're not doing good enough n piss u off! you will know when she is having an orgasm she will be tearing your back up n biting n screaming climbing the wall or biting the billow you just gotta experiment aim the dick up aim it down and hit the sides u just gotta know where to hit it to drive them crazy its easier to find the right spot with you're fingers when you go up bend them around the bone move you're fingers simultaneously then stop then go n go deep look for the g-spot n twirl you're finger on it n go behind it n push on it then turn ur hand around n n pull back move 2 fingers simultaneously with pressure then on each side facing the legs there are spots that feel like guitar strings if you pluck them they go crazy try plucking them simultaneously and playing with the clit at the same time they will be trying everything to stop you but don't let them slide up and down the strings then start fingering fast n they will go up the wall n when your done with that they are so sensitive they wont be faking any more orgasms it just takes girls longer to have one than the guy that's y 4-play is so important don't 4get that
2006-08-02 07:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Nukem 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Whaaah? Any man out there who thinks it's easy for a woman to fake an orgasm has never really given a woman a real orgasm! It ain't just about the juices boys, or the moaning, or the so called satisfied smile!
Any woman who is actually enjoying sex will be showing you exactly what you should be doing if you're missing the spot and she would expect you to be doing the same right back at her! Great sex is all about communication, it's just not all about words. Listen with your body and she will never fake on you again!
2006-08-02 10:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by CC...x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only about one in five women are able to acheive orgasm from intercourse alone. Most need clitoral stimulation and intercourse at the same time. I am one of those women. I have faked orgasm on several occasions, because I have found that every man is just sure he is going to be the one to bring me to orgasm through intercourse. I don't want them to fear it is something they are doing wrong nor do I want to ask them to try other things when they have been going at dilligently for two hours already. The older i get the more i realize that i am cheating myself out of an orgasm and end up frustrated and unsatisfied. So, I do things a little differenty nowadays. I tell them of the situation. I tell them what they can do to help me acheive orgasm and I make sure I am taken care of before they even stick their penis in.
2006-08-02 08:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by trouble_n_ks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women fake orgasms because sex can be boring and it's a good way to get the guy to finish. Simple as that.
2006-08-02 09:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by fem_istential 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. It's very logical that they fake an orgasm, whether it's out of compassion or fear. It's common sense to know that if men could be taught to be great lovers, there would be a class in High School or College course.
2006-08-02 07:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is true, but women and men get different biological responses out of sex. Women have multiple orgasms and may not put a large amount of importance on the one with their partner.
2006-08-02 07:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose if you have faked it once it would be hard to explain to your partner without hurting his feelings that he doesn't do it for you, so you just keep faking it in the vain hope that things might improve. Yes, a most silly attitude but us women are as bad as you men at talking about sexual satisfaction. It is wrong not to talk together about both your sexual needs and should be discussed if a fufilled and loving partnership is to develop.
2006-08-02 08:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't do it all the time, but I do do it often, and it's mostly because a) I know my man really wants to please me, but b) I really don't want to hurt his feelings by telling him he just didn't last long enough when c) I already know he's overly aware that he has a "time" problem when I know that half the problem is simply that he's got a short fuse and I've got a really long one.
And sometimes just becuase the more I get into it, the more likely I am to actually HAVE said orgasm. So I'm trying to fake myself into it, too. lol
2006-08-02 13:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find that men tend to sulk if they think they are not good enough in bed, and if you love the man you are sleeping with (which i did or i wouldn't be sleeping with them) then you want to make them feel good, and so you fake an orgasm so they dont feel bad. Although, if i didn't fake one, then they tried harder the next time around (generally about 20 minutes later), which was great!
2006-08-02 07:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women don't fake orgasms. I have never faked an orgasm. Whats the point? If some loser can't satisfy you in bed just ditch him and get someone who can. And most men can they just don't wanna be bothered. The trick is to get yours first before he gets his.
Each to her/his own.
2006-08-02 11:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋