i am 14 and i got my girl friend preg what do i do?

Question

i need some help i has sexs with my girl friend and she is 14 and i am 14 then i find out 1 sec ago she is preg if some one can tell me what to do ur if u whont you can add me on yahoo it is [e-mail]

Answer 1

There are homes all over the country that will house a pregnant teen-ager until she gives birth. They will help her in all manner and even find a loving family to adopt the baby. This is the best option you will find. You both are just to young to be taking on such a huge responsibility. May God be with you.

Answer 2

Well you shouldn't have rushed into tha quick your still a kid! Do not get and oborsion that is wrong, get her to come over with her parents an you all talk about it. See if you and your girlfriend can stay in a basement or a mother-n-law house and make it into your own litle home. Don't leave her now or that will make her life miserble just cause your scared don't mean you should leave her. Ya'll have made a baby that has little of both of you in it. Live with her get married,go to the hospital when she's there, she your baby, have a home and raise your kid right, you need to grow old togethre now! This was all your fault and you shouldn't drop out and be a chicken! You can do it! OH AND STAY IN SCHOOL!

Answer 3

Have your girlfriend take pregnancy test again. If its positive tell both sets of parents...That maybe very difficult, but both of you are too young to make the MAJOR decisions facing you, without a Strong support base. Forgive yourself. Stuff happens. Learn from it and don't let it happen again. Pregnancy is a very emotional time for us girls regardless of our age. Be as supportive as you can. Be honest about you own feelings. Talk and talk and talk some more. Find a support base and use it. Then do what the rest of us grown ups are suppose to do... TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME. Sorry that you are forced into this way too soon, but learn to enjoy what life has given you. Perhaps this child holds to key to the cure for cancer or some other great thing. If God has allowed this to be, there is no mistake.

Answer 4

Okay - I've just read your previous questions...my you've been a busy little bee, haven't you?

First you weren't sure if you loved your girlfriend, then you had to deal with people at school thinking you're gay, you never had "the talk", and now your girlfriend is pregnant.......

Pressured much?

First - find out if she is in fact pregnant (the test isn't always accurate) - she needs to tell her parents and see a doctor (prayer wouldn't hurt either); then you and her need to figure out whether or not you both can handle a baby (I'm thinking no); But whatever the decision is, do not leave her hanging. This is just as much your responsibility as it is hers.

Answer 5

Ok since im around your age & i cant picture ever being pregnant at my age i think you should ask her if she wants to keep the baby. If she does then i advice you to start making some money some how. Since you are to young to work at a store or something i think you should work with a family business or something. Hopefully you really love your girlfriend if she does decide to keep the baby. Either way you have to tell her parents and your parents. Hopefully they wont compeletly flip and help you both out. But if she doesnt want to keep the baby you still have to help her pay for the abotion unless her parents are going to pay for it. Whatever she decides to do just be there by her side to support her because it is going to be a very emotional time for her.
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Answer 6

Don't Panic! What is done is done. First talk to an adult who you trust to give you a good advice in how to approach your parents. Then, since both of you are underage, both of your parents needs to discuss and plan not only your future but the baby's future.

Be prepare for a change on your life. Be prepare to educate yourself, so you can be eventually, a responsible parent.

Being a parent is the most wonderfull experience anyone can have.... a baby is a blessing... but you need to finish growing up first and educate yourself, in order to be able to guide another life and be the best parent you can be.

Good Luck!

Answer 7

Well I understand you are only 14 but you need to take as much responsability in the child as the mother. I know state laws say you can't work yet but you can mow lawns and clean yards. You also need to be there for your girl and help her out. You may want to talk to her and see if she is ready to be a mother at 14. You also need to tell your parents. If they find out and you didn't tell them you will have trust issues with your parents.

Answer 8

******Take responsibility. I know it must be really scary for you and your girlfriend right now. Unfortunately you have chosen to act like a grownup and now are going to be a father. You and your girlfriend need to discuss how you want to deal with this. Keep it or adoption (abortion is not an option)? Either way you are going to have to support this child or start the process of adoption. You are going to have to tell both parents. Yes it'll be hard, but if you sound prepared about how you are going to take responsibility it may help to aliviate some of the upset.
Whatever you do, PLEASE do not abandon your girlfriend. She has got to be terrified! Stand by her side.

Good luck.

Answer 9

Make sure your parents and her parents know about this! Its your fault for not using protection. When the child is born, you are going to have to get a job and help raise the kid! Or, you can put the child up for adoption. You would probably not have enough time for school because of you being busy! You should not of done it in the first place.

Answer 10

First of all, you have to remember that since you thought that you were mature enough to have sex, you now have to be mature enough to be a father of a baby, and take responsibility for your actions. Remember that God, wants to give this baby life. You and your girlfriend have to decided whether or not the baby will be raised with you two, or with adoptive parents. Which I highly recommend. You are not old enough to work and still need a lot of school to finish. Please look into adoption, and never abortion. Remember that God wants this baby to live and be loved. It is up to both of you to decide if you are ready and able to give this baby the best situation to live in.

Peace be with you. Pray about it.