How do you feel about a guy who says he loves you and yet keeps checking out every girl that passes by?
2006-08-02 07:01:38 · 30 answers · asked by just42day 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's a little disrespectful for a man to obviously check out other women, whether or not he's with you. But if a beautiful woman walks in, it's not really his fault if he notices her. I mean, surely you can relate. Have you not ever found your eyes wandering? But if he is being rude about it, that's one thing.
You have to remember that you probably won't be able to change him. so if you talk to him about it and nothing changes, then you'll just have to decide if you can live with it or not. It wouldn't be fair to him or you if you stay in a relationship with him, knowing he's like this, and then you constantly gripe and ***** about it.
Let him know how it makes you feel. If he doesn't change, then decide if you can stay with him, even knowing you'll have to accept his wandering eyes.
2006-08-02 07:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mistress T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to clarify here. Is he just "checking out" every girl that passes by, or is he "ogling" every girl who passes by? Guys look at girls. It's just something we do (and don't pretend girls don't look at guys the same way -- we KNOW you do). But if your boyfriend is ogling the other ladies, he has a problem that you don't want to deal with, so get rid of him now.
2006-08-02 14:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by sarge927 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married 14 years and I still check out women I think your a little insecure
2006-08-02 14:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy says that he loves you and looks at every girl that walks buy he's just telling you what you want to hear. If he loved you he wouldn't want to look at other girls.
2006-08-02 14:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by kasper_martinez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can't help noticing someone that is attractive. We are human and occassionally we will notice an attractive person of the opposite sex. You just need to be respectful to your spouse. If it happens all of the time then there is a problem.
2006-08-02 14:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by Keke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to make you #1, and be more subtle about his scoping. If he loves you, he will care about your feelings and comply. If he turns it around and makes it your problem, then you should dump him. All guys look (girls, too!) but considerate ones do it subtly, but keep the majority of their focus on you.
2006-08-02 14:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man checks out chicks i check out guys its not a big deal if your only looking
2006-08-02 14:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by Meriah C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a natural reaction... don't worry about it... it's just eye candy.... just because you know you are going to order the steak as usual doesn't mean you can't look around and see what else is on the menu.
2006-08-02 14:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you "grow-up" and appreciate what you have your ridiculous insecurities will go away also. "Get a grip!" My girllover checks out every chick that goes by, so what? I know I"M the one in bed with her!
2006-08-02 14:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by J. T. N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesnt really and is just saying it to keep you happy.....on the other hand he just looking its not like he is grabbing them on the *** everytime they pass by, let up on him a bit, he isnt blind, let him enjoy the view.
2006-08-02 14:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋