How many people would cheat on their spouse rather than leave them because you have kids together? I mean, if you are not really happy?
2006-08-02 06:58:43 · 13 answers · asked by Julie B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Julie,
After seeing you and your children, I don't believe I'd go through the trouble of cheating with you at home. My first instinct would be to work it out with you. And if it couldn't be done, I'd leave before seeing another woman.
Hope this helps you !!!
2006-08-02 07:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by quiet times 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should probably get to some councilling. By making the mistake to cheat, you are not only cheating your spouse, but your children too. Not to mention yourself. Perhaps it would be a better idea to decide if your relationship with your husband could be improved, and if not take the appropriate steps. You will never regret doing things the right way.
2006-08-02 07:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by nothing anymore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would not cheat because it will only hurt me and my family. If you are not happy, let them know. Let them understand the situation you are in. It is better to let them know that you let go because you are not happy at all than to let them find out that you are lying to them. This makes the situation tricky because you have kids, however, I think that no one should stick together just because they have kids. Make sure that you have tried everything (talking to them, counselling, etc) and if none of these have worked, then let go gracefully.
P.s: don't just take off without letting your kids or your spouse know where you are because that's just brutal.
Good luck
2006-08-02 07:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by kray_z_blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thank the kids would already know, so to save them any more emotional damage you should live. but never cheat nothing good can come out of it,know matter how good it may feel to you. you had to have loved your spouse @ one time so be respectful and honest to that memory that you two once shared.
2006-08-02 07:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in this lifetime. I am deathly against any form of cheating and would never do so, not would I want any form of cheating to be done on me. Cheating is the easy way to avoid confrontation and communication. Both of these elements are very important and necessary in any relationship.
2006-08-02 07:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Julie,
I would be willing to find a woman to give me what is missing in my marriage.
I am in that situation, but...I am still in love with my wife. She just has never been in tune with me sexually. She is happy with only having sex every three weeks or so...I need it more.
I am tired of masturbating and am looking for one woman that can provide just that...sex! No relationship no ties...no strings!
I think it is easier for guys to seperate sex and LOVE...they are not the same thing. Although I think that most people will think differently...they are wrong. Sex and LOVE are not the same...and you can have one without having the other.
2006-08-02 07:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by some1_on_the_side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your really not happy.....then your kids already know this. It is never a good idea to stay together for the children...it causes them emotional stress too.
2006-08-02 07:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never stay together just for the kids..that messes with their little minds...and causes more hurt than good to your own mental health.
2006-08-02 07:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-08-02 07:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by cck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!
2006-08-02 07:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋