well here i am 21 years old and im sooo going nuts. well i live with my husband of course and we are having sum financial probs. which is normal but its sooo hard because i always imagined my life being better than this but i can tell already that we werent prepared and we probably should have taken things a little more slowly. but since we already took these steps i cant turn back now all i can really do is move forward and make the best of it. the question is how am i going to do this with soooo much on my mind. we need to move but we only have 300 dollars to our name. my parents and brotheres and sisters are here too. its just a big crazy thing. i need sum advice or sumthing to help me stay strong....:*(
2006-08-02 06:47:21 · 8 answers · asked by яєηєє ℓσvєs вεiηg Hi§ ßα߀ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well im in the same boat except with 5 kids. and i have 8 dollars. the only thing u can do is keep going forward and hope for the best
2006-08-02 06:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are so young to be in this kind of bind.But well as you said you can't go back to the past,what is done is done.Think of why you got married,support each other emotionally every night before you go to bed.If you need to move, move and make it something small,just have the basics in furniture,food, etc. You will make it ahead, keep that in mind.Keep working,if you both aren't working, get a job and that would help.Get some college courses, look in your towns newspaper there is alot of free classes,financial assistance for colleges.Put a smile on your face and look around you, you will find a way to get ahead.Girl if you knew my situation you'd feel better of yours.Good Luck.(Go to church, its free)
2006-08-02 07:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by MS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We might not get what we always thought but we can definitely keep trying. How many persons are working in your family. If every one contributes even little it becomes substantial amt so keep u r cool & get involved in some or the other work. The most imp beleive in God & urself. If there is a will there is always a way. Get going.
2006-08-02 06:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Alan_at_rescue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know... i was married too, i'm 26 yo. Don't break your brain with this, you just have to live alone with your husband (no family allowed) it is better if you just take care of your own problems not the everybody's problems, it'll take you some time get used to it but it'll work, believe me.
2006-08-02 06:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by drawer2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the majority of us have made similar mistakes and found ourselves in similar situations. The key is in making good joint decisions and realizing that in order to get through this period in your life you will each be sacrificing a lot but that it is done together, and when you get through this time in your life you will be able to celebrate the benefits together.
2006-08-02 06:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you both need to work full time jobs. You guys need to set a goal and said within 3 months we MOST be living on our own.
Good luck!
2006-08-02 06:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by Porsche 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 05:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get a job.
2. Spend less than you earn.
Seriously, that's the way to start.
2006-08-02 06:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by FatElvis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋