This is probably what every man wants to know, I know that not all women are the same, but if I get a few different answers I could choose the best for me and hope it works. Sometimes it's difficult for us men to understand a woman and approaching a woman can be a nightmare sometimes, mabey this will help a few of us men out there, and in turn, help you women.
2006-08-02 06:36:22 · 14 answers · asked by Pazma 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Show you are genuinely interested in getting to know her, not in getting down her pants. Don't gaulk at her breasts or ask her breast size. Don't ask her what the freakiest thing she has ever done in bed, or what her favorite position is. Don't hog all the conversation. Do give her a chance to talk, this shows you really are interested in her as a person. Do treat her like a lady. And be a gentleman!
2006-08-02 07:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by trouble_n_ks 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well, I get approached by weird men a lot because I right out in public in freakville U.S.A. I will tell you the top things that stick out in my mind that have turned me off this far...
Wedding ring
struggling for a compliment
wasting my time at work to hit on me (there is a time and place)
Basically...
Be courteous. If I'm busy at work doing something don't assume it's okay to interrupt me to ask me for my number. That's rude. Find an appropriate time. Buy a drink and have it sent to my friends and I. I like compliments like: you have a great laugh, you seem really fun...things like that. If you immediately walk up and tell me i'm gorgeous or my eyes are pretty that's kind of uncomfortable for me. Just start out simple. Don't over think it. Your first words don't have to knock me off my feet.
2006-08-02 13:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by melaniek5323 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compliments
2006-08-02 14:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by "*♥*Nafisa*♥*" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of compliments, and direct eye contact. If you can make us feel like the prettiest woman in the room, we usually melt like butta'.
2006-08-02 13:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Olive Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be real and be yourself. We can tell, and you will sound stupid. Too many compliments and you come off as a fake and a player.
Just intruduce yourself, let them know you are interested, ask their name and some questions about themselves.
2006-08-02 13:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No well with me, flattering does not work, because i just wont believe you.. lol
I tend to choose humour. If you make me laugh, then thats a good thing.
2006-08-02 13:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eye contact, smile, humour, different things appeal to different women.
I like the above, but my mate loves men who are crude and filthy, so its very much dependant on the woman.
2006-08-02 13:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by lozzielaws 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are used to men telling them all kinds of nice things and giving them compliments.try busting them and making a lot of fun.
2006-08-02 13:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by niko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't generally go for chat up lines, just someone that makes me laugh and makes me feel special!
2006-08-02 13:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"excuse me miss. i saw you from over there and i just wanted to let you know that you look really beautiful today. would it be okay if we got to know each other? can i give you my number? maybe you can give me a call sometime if your interested." only guys, if your gonna say this, really mean it!!!
2006-08-02 13:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Crisseye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋