Love Problem Plz Help?

Question

i love my best friend and i also told her that i love you but she says that she dont believe in love she also do every effort to make me out of this ..because when i proposed her she said no..so from that day i got very upset and till that day she often tries to make my mood normal she says that i cant see you in this condition.....now what should i do i love her very much....i am 20 engineering student..she is in my class

Answer 1

If she doesnt feel the same way, dont push it, accept it and try to move on, what would you rather, a friend that is just slightly pissed because you are hasseling her for something she isnt interested in or no friend at all?????

Answer 2

Dude all i can say is taht i had a problem like this and still havin it.But im also trying to forget her. well i tried lots of times but girlz like this will not change their minds try approaching in a different way.
Here's what u do start avoiding her for a day or 2. If she tries to talk to u make an angry face then after some days start talkin to her with a bit of coolness callin her sweety or some jazz like that. If she gets it ur good to go. If she dosnt forget it. She aint gonna be ur friend the choice is yours

Answer 3

love do progress from friendship. Its difficult for u at the moment but if u worry too much about relationship problems now u will suffer in ur studies... loving a person by the way doesn't mean that u have to be with that person.
Frankly speanking, i do believe that u wanted her to be happy always. Am i rite?

To tell u the truth she doesn't accept u doesn't mean u have to be upset as long as she is happy or u will be there whenever she needed someone, u have already express ur love for her.

Go think about it. I used 7years on this don u do the same thing.
Gd luck

Answer 4

Well you are an Engineer. This means you are aware that in the process of building something, you need to do feasibility analysis in order to determine if a project can actually be done.

Forming a relationship with a girl requires this same kind of reasoning. You cannot build a relationship if it is feasible.

I suggest you start over and look for a new relationship "to build." You will go crazy trying to construct something that cannot be constructed in the first place.

Answer 5

It could be that she cares about you as a person / friend but not romantically. I think you need to backoff or you could lose her friendship. It becomes rather sad when one person is more involved than the other and the pain can push you apart because of your behaviour if you don't contain it. It's hard but sometimes it's best to move on.

Answer 6

well i agree with her believing in LOVE please but the reason is probably because she has been hurt very bad before it's hard to open up to anyone maybe thinking the same thing will happen again give her time maybe she does love you but will not admit it some are afraid of being hurt again and again

Answer 7

Try going out with other people. Let her see how much fun you are having with other people. She might not be the one for you. Have fun. Live is too short.

Answer 8

Your only 20, step back and give her some space. Try and remain friends and if things are ment to be it will happen.

Answer 9

All you can do is respect how she feels about love, maybe she's been hurt before. Change classes, stop wearing your feelings on your coat sleeve, man up and move on.

Answer 10

Move on buddy! if she doesnt see you in that way, then go the other way. Sometimes what we want and what we get are VERY different. I hope you find happiness. Good luck.