Me and him are good friends he hugs me and we go to partys together I ask him but he always says i don't know or no... Yet I said to him that I liked him the other thing is that i have a boyfriend and I love him more than you can even think of but before I love my friend. He says to break up with my boyfriend and he'll tell me but he always says no or I don't know and if I do and what if I do what he said to do but he still doesn't like me in the end I'll have nothing....... Help me please.....
2006-08-02 06:34:50 · 7 answers · asked by Sachiko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds to me that he (your friend) is a good, respectable guy.. who WILL NOT get involved with someone who is currently in a relationship. (that is the right thing to do)
Pretty much as long as you are in a relationship with the other guy .. if your friend does have feelings for you he is not going to say anything to break you & your boyfriend up or cause confusion for you & himself... He is probably guarding himself against getting hurt also. (hey he is smart guy)
I think he does really like you but isn't going to tell you.. for the reasons that I mentioned above.
Pretty much you gotta decide who you really do love & want to be with.???
Is it your friend or current boyfriend?
What is it that you love about your friend?
What is it that you love about the guy your seeing?
Do you just love one of them cuz they are hot or do you love one of them for whats on the inside.
You have to be the one to figure that out.
(it's whats on the inside that counts!)
You could just cool it off with your current boyfriend for a while...But that would be very hard to do if you love him like you say.
Sure it is a risk ... is finding out if your friend loves you worth it? Weather you win or loose?
Think about it you'll figure it out.
Talk to your friend IF he is the one that you are truly in love with... tell him how you feel & how you are scared & that you don't want to hurt the guy your seeing right now by breaking it off with him.. Unless you know you & him (your friend) got something going on.. feelings that you both share. Sounds like your friend is waiting for you to decide though..
If you don't truly love this friend... Just keep it best friends..
However best friends do make the best mates! I know cuz
My husband & me were best friends for a couple years before we ever realiized/admitted our feelings for each other. We'll be happily married 6 years in less than 2 weeks from now :)
Good Luck & God Bless
hope whoever you choose it is true love.
2006-08-02 07:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Joeysol'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN: I would never Date a guy who has cheated. And all your doing by hitting on him while you have a boyfriend is basically saying your a cheater. Maybe he thinks like that too... TONS of people think that way! So if you are seriously wanting a relationship with this guy, break it off with your current boyfriend. If you cant do that then leave the other guy alone. You should completely respect that guy for not letting you cheat, and for being a true man. I know i respect him/ as should your boyfriend. Good luck.
2006-08-02 07:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you break up with your boyfriend for this "friend" of yours who cannot even be honest and open with you now, then you are making a big mistake. If you find out later that your friend does not love you (after you've broken off with your boyfriend) then you are gonna be really heart broken.
Your friend has nothing to lose... but you do. Think about it.
Good luck to you. Hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-02 06:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by kayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look's like this guy is into you yet he remains no longer waiting to make any agency commitments about your existence toghether. perhaps he's attempting to do something which could help both truly one of you mentally and maximum heavily monetarily. the better area is he does no longer want you to make certain in any extreme relation which could impact you on your later existence, that appears like someone who incredibly loves you, so do not complication he isn't any longer dishonest on you or having an affair elsewhere, he needs you to deserve the very perfect. even even as someone tell's the different "i love you" that man or woman unknowingly makes thousands of commitments in a unmarried go without understanding it. and on account that he likes you perhaps he will wait till eventually is sweet and than inform you what he sense's for you. do not rush into belongings you may finally end up spoiling a joyful ralation between both of you. Take care
2016-11-27 20:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by dittman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's being manipulative to me. Be wary of him.
2006-08-02 06:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-02 06:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by s932 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then he probably doesnt like you
2006-08-02 06:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by zzpandagrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋