What happens when you no longer want to live your life?

Question

The hurdles of the past, the situations of the present, and the inability to get past pain, forgiveness, etc. Yet you have all the things around you to help you get past these things, but you never forget, you always remember, and the pain always persists. Why do we choose to continue living life with such pain, other than our selfless desire to not let all those who live and love us to grieve over our passing on to some other place...or no where...

Answer 1

I would hope the desire to allow others to hear your stories of pain so that they can learn from your mistakes. It would help the lives of those who hear your story. Your existence allows the development of society to advance. Lives are always important.

Answer 2

Whose life do you want to live? When that happens, immediately look around you, wherever you are. Take the first thing that gets your attention and find out all of the reasons you think it got your attention. Then simply thank it. Thank it for all the reason that you have to thank it. Do this for as long as it take to feel like you are starting to look at life a little differently. Then find a quite place and give thanks for all that is to the ultimate creator. What have you got to lose. Way to go in not wanting to let your loved ones suffer your passing on. That will indeed happen soon enough. No need to push it.
Love ya man.

Answer 3

At first you shall clerify for yourself -
"What I am ?"
"From where I came ?"
"What goals i did achieve ?"
"Can I do some more than spending my life with dark thinkings ?"
"Am I capable of doing some good for me or others ?"
"Did I realy answer truly to questions above ?"
"Can i be forgiven ?"
"Can i forgive ?"
"Do I make things worse thinking all the time about it ?"
"Does it realy meanfull to think all the time about it ?"
"Do I miss spending my whole time thinking about the past , when i can Create realy nice present ?"

( well - maybe alot of more questions )

- I help myself with answering such questions when my beloved girl left me without realy reason .
Some months later i found a beter one :)
I wish you luck in whatever you are in trouble curently , but thinking in such way do not help noone.

GL , and do not give up !

Answer 4

Sometimes people are just to happy feeling sorry for themselves. Go Do something for someone else. Stop gazing at your bellybutton and feed the homeless or something. Anything. People live happier lives who have gone through worse situations than you have.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Go outside for a walk in the sunshine. Take up a new hobby. Read stories to the blind. If you go through life thinking poor poor me, You will be of no use to anybody, not even yourself.

Read the bible. Sing praise music to God. Go to daily mass and ask God what you should do with the rest of your life. Get out of your house and out of yourself. There is a whole world out there and you won't live long enough to do everything, if you live to be 105.



God Bless You, ;-)

Answer 5

Like the Pheonix, you rise from the ashes of an old life, and begin a brand new one. Reinvent yourself.

Answer 6

you eventually will have a re birth and see life in a way never seen before through your eyes

Answer 7

when u no longer want to live you must realize that even if u kill urself- ull be stuck in that same stae of mind for eternity. so if ur gon kill urself, make sure its when ur happy. otherwise u will suffer forever. just kidding. never kill yourself

Answer 8

have a smoke, slam a beer, then ether move on or get it over with. Not trying to be insensitive, just how I am

Answer 9

The question is, do you really want to die or do you just feel the way you are living is intolerable??

Answer 10

Keep loving.