This is a serious question. Its not a matter of bad breath we both brush and have good breath. She says she just does like to kiss. If there is an occasional kiss. Its just a peck. And if i try she gives the cheek. Its been this way for years. There has to be another reason. She isnt having an affair. It would be obvious if she were. I just know it aint happening is there something else. I must know a woman out there has to have the answer.
2006-08-02 06:23:48 · 10 answers · asked by Grin Reeper 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we have discussed this issue many times and she just says she doesnt like to kiss. Maybe i am a bad kisser. But just a peck on the lips who can screw that up. She doesnt like to do that. I just thought there were women in the same boat that didnt like to kiss anymore... she did like way back when.
2006-08-02 08:40:04 · update #1
Women feel love by protection? I dont think that is her outlook, is that the general consensus or what?
PS
Sex is great
2006-08-02 08:41:33 · update #2
Some men (and some women!) are just bad kissers. However, kissing is a learned skill, not an inborn trait. It takes practice, love and a desire to be ok with hits and misses, just like sex or any other habit.
I agree with some of the posters: something else's rotten in Denmark, and you two need to start talking before you get on kissing. Nobody's got a crystal ball and nobody can expect the other to read his/her mind. So I suggest you start talking, even if that means getting into uncomfortable zones.
Careful, this is not a matter of uncovering who's guilty of what. Nothing of that sort! Just miscommunication. The longer you two wait (yes, you're both responsible), the more this kissing/not kissing issue will creep into other areas and then you'll be in big trouble.
Good luck!
2006-08-02 08:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I don't want to hurt your feelings, but could be simply you are a bad kisser. I tell why I am not into heavy kissing any longer is because I have dry mouth since they messed up my saliva glands during surgery. it's very uncomfortable. Does she still like sex? You said it's been this way for years, why is it just now bothering you enough to seek advice, what else is going on.
Why not just ask her? There could be a reason for this, that we won't near about could quess at...Thank you for jumping on the idea of her having an affair, anytime some couple has the least little bit of trouble--everyone thinks affair! Try talking to her about it..I had to tell my husband about the my dry mouth problem. I miss all the kissing but it can't be helped.....Good luck and I hope you find the answer.....God bless us all..........
2006-08-02 13:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here are the reasons I don't like kissing my husband of 12 years.
1. bad oral hygine
2. scratchy stubble (OWWIE)
3. bad kisser (he's really not good)
4. not really attracted
5. he gets hard and wants sex (sex is pathetic with him)
6. he doesn't make me feel special or loved.
try reviewing how you engage your wife in intimacy. Try looking at how you provide her basic needs for love. Women feel love by proctection. Physical (buff guys can protect) Emotional (don't let anyone hurt her feelings, that means you too) and Financial (make sure money matters are secure and stable). If you're not taking care of basic business...that's a good indicator.
2006-08-02 13:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume you kissed alot before you married?She may have just gotten to comfy in the relationship and thinks you have been together along time theres no need for that.I suggest talking to her tell her you enjoy kissing her and that when she dosent kiss you you feel hurt and rejected.Ask her why she dosent like it anymore. Your relationship is fine other then that right?Maybe you could try to romance her do things for her that you used to do when you were dating.Take her back to that time that she fell in love with you.Try spicing things up a little.She may get bored of the same old thing all the time.Thats really all i can think of to be honest,I hope it works out for you though
2006-08-02 13:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she like to kiss when you were dating?
Maybe she doesn't like how you kiss.
She could be having an affair and be a really good liar.
She could've been abused as a child.
2006-08-02 13:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok stranger, why would you want to kiss someone? You are attracted to them, they have sexy lips, or just a beautiful face and you want to put your lips on them. Love? Lust? Something ain't right in one of those departments.
2006-08-02 13:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her she's loves you and why she is not kissing you. There is something but what? You need to talk to her and find out. Good Luck....
2006-08-02 13:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't like to kiss and maybe feels it's dirty .....germs and all. some people think like that.
2006-08-02 16:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just doesn't like it. What other reason do you need?
2006-08-02 13:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't attracted to you?!?
2006-08-02 13:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋