I mean I'm married, but I always look...all the time...like even if she's with me...and no I'm not an asshole!..I'm just 24\!
2006-08-02 06:20:24 · 12 answers · asked by gooterscooby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if she gets pissed that you look you can tell her
"I'm just feeling sorry for those women that they aren't as beautiful as you are." Then after she:
a) slugs you for being such a liar
-or-
b) stops laughing at you for being such a liar
you can come clean with the truth that it is a natural curiosity for you, and you'll try to stop looking as often but it will take some time.
2006-08-02 06:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by Shrek'shandsomeidenticaltwin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no way in gods creation that you are the only male who looks. My husband does it all the time. It doesn't bother me at all. I know that there is always going to be better looking woman but this was the case when he married me as well. As long as you don't touch them then looking is only half the battle. Good luck!
2006-08-02 13:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by Right_Stuff66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey my boyfriend looks too and I don't get mad. We all look it's only that some girls make a big deal out of it and we look too im not gonna lie. But hey you should let her know that even if you look at other girls that there is no one else besides her that you want to be with. Just don't make any comments that might make her feel that she is not good enough for you.
2006-08-02 13:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to look, but if you love and repect your wife, don't do it when your with her, that's just rude and it might make her feel insecure. Alway give her with your full attention when your together. Look at other women on your own time.
2006-08-02 13:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all about fairness. your wife looks too(if she says otherwise, she is lying). do you give her a hard time about it? nobody should. humans are by nature sexual creatures. there is a world of difference between looking and touching, and your wife should understand that you've given up your touching privileges to be with her, and she should appreciate this. and so should you, of course...
2006-08-02 13:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural for you to check out other women, just as it would be natural for your wife to check out other men. We're human, we can't help it. As long as you're not cheating or blatantly expressing how hot someone is, then I think it would be ok
2006-08-02 13:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural and healthy to look as long as thats all you do,if you wasn't looking at others you probably wouldn't be interested in her either.
2006-08-02 13:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel too bad. You can window shop, just don't buy anything.
It's seems normal to want to look, but just don't touch!
2006-08-02 13:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Motherof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a dude your supposed to look don't make any comments when your wife is with you
2006-08-02 13:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is life you should look!
2006-08-02 13:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋